以下文章来源于后浪研究所 ，作者巴芮、薇薇子 后浪研究所 . 36氪旗下年轻态公众号。这位青年里边请，你被研究了。 我们不是不想社交， 而是AI让"别人"消失了。 文 ｜ 巴芮 编辑 ｜ 薇薇子 来源｜ 后浪研究所（ID：youth36kr ） 封面来源 ｜ 受访者供图 不久前，人类学家项飙的新书《你好，陌生人》出版。这本书的内容是一系列发生于2023年的对谈的集结——当时正处于疫情尾声，项飙与画家刘小东、 纪录片导演李一凡等五位来自不同领域的学者、艺术家对于"社会陌生化"展开的一系列对谈。 距离那场对话的发生已经过去了两年，但我们发现这种所谓的陌生化不仅没有消退，反而"升级"了。技术的迅猛发展，特别是AI的普及，让人们的情感依 赖出现了新的转向；而线下的真实关系则变得更脆弱、疏远。 7月初，我们跟项飙老师围绕着AI、年轻人与陌生化进行了一场对话。这不是一次对新书的补充说明，而是对当下社会状态的再观察。 也许，我们还没有准备好去全面迎接AI社会。但在那之前，我们至少可以先学着辨认一个人身上的"活人味"。因为只有在那里，真实的社会才能开始，人 与人的信任才可能重建。 《你好，陌生人》由中信出版集团出版，是人类学 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the impact of AI on human relationships, particularly among young people, highlighting a trend of emotional reliance on AI and the resulting social alienation [2][3][7]. Group 1: AI and Emotional Dependency - The rise of AI has led to a significant emotional dependency among individuals, with some preferring interactions with AI over real human connections [7][9]. - This emotional reliance on AI reflects a broader trend of social alienation, where individuals feel increasingly disconnected from one another [8][10]. - The allure of AI as a "perfect partner" stems from its ability to cater to individual needs, but it lacks genuine human experience and perspective [9][21]. Group 2: The State of Young People - Many young individuals are experiencing a decline in vitality, characterized by chronic fatigue and a lack of interest in life, which may be exacerbated by AI's influence [27][28]. - The phenomenon of "long-term survival" is emerging, where individuals exist without genuine engagement or energy, potentially as a consequence of AI's pervasive role in their lives [28][31]. - The concept of "lying flat" is discussed as a coping mechanism, but it is noted that this approach may not provide the necessary energy or direction for a fulfilling life [32][34]. Group 3: Social Dynamics and Communication - The article emphasizes the need for individuals to develop effective communication skills and understand the nuances of social interactions, particularly in the context of AI's influence [40][41]. - There is a call for a shift towards more authentic interactions, moving away from superficial engagements that AI may encourage [22][24]. - The importance of recognizing and embracing imperfections in oneself and others is highlighted as a way to foster deeper connections and combat the alienation brought on by AI [20][21].