I started my parenting journey in beautiful Italy almost 30 years ago. It began unexpectedly with loss. We lost twin babies during pregnancy when we could no longer hear their heartbeat and I almost lost myself with them.As I lay in my hospital bed recovering from surgery, a nurse appeared and gently placed one hand on my damp cheek. She spoke in a language I only half understood. But her message was clear.You are not alone. I am here with you now. You will come through this.And something along the lines of ...