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洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 作者：诗词君 来源：诗词天地 （ID: shicitiandi） 挫败时看志气，闲暇时看心性 。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播周周 朗读音频 人生在世，无论在为人处事，还是在工作生活里，我们都在各自变好的路上，把握好人生的4个"度"。 人生短暂，延长生命的长度，就能拥有一个长寿精彩的人生； 学海无涯，延长思考的深度，就能拥有一个博古通今的头脑。 01 长度 生命有度，人生的长度就是我们寿命的长短。我们选择不了命运的长度，但我们可以选择延长生命的道路。 健康是延长我们生命长度的基石，拥有健康才会有人生的未来，才会有人生的幸福。 圣经名言，铮铮有声："世上没有比健康更好的财富，没有比内心快乐更大的快乐！" 合理锻炼维持我们健康的体魄，健康的身心。 每天清晨去公园跑跑步，周末有空和朋友约着去爬山、游泳。 每个月可以组织一次朋友家庭的小郊游，放风筝，骑单车，都是延长我们生命的长度的好方式。 世间艰难，升温心灵的温度，就能拥有一个温暖如 ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 沐晴 来源： 读者 （ID: duzheweixin） 成长是一辈子的课题。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播周周 朗读音频 一期直播中，罗翔老师与年轻人聊起"努力"这个话题。 很多人向他抱怨，自己勤勤恳恳做事，到头来却是一场空，既没有实现财务自由，也没有成为 人上人，付出的一切仿佛都打了水漂。 罗翔老师说，努力可能会竹篮打水一场空，但不努力，一定是一场空。 他语重心长地鼓励大家： 做你该做的事，并接受它的事与愿违。 仔细想想，果真是这个道理。 那么，努力的意义到底是什么？或许，从一开始，我们就错了。 01 认定努力就会成功，是一种傲慢。 上周末，与朋友阿光小聚。 几杯酒下肚，阿光涨红着脸，打开了话匣子。 他从二十岁出头，就一个人在外打拼，从打零工干起，什么苦活累活都接。 如果只把努力与成功挂钩，等待我们的很可能是失望。 但和很多人一样，眼看到了35岁，生活的压力却越来越大。 尤其是有了孩子以后，花销一下子大了，理想中的日 ...

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Core Viewpoint - The true attraction in marriage comes from the richness of one's own world, and the dynamics of relationships are determined by value and benefit rather than just emotional depth [20][21][22]. Group 1: Understanding Human Nature in Marriage - Many individuals mistakenly believe that relentless giving will earn them appreciation, only to realize that unvalued contributions are often taken for granted [7][10]. - The experiences of a woman who sacrificed her career for her husband's entrepreneurship illustrate that selfless acts can lead to feelings of neglect and resentment when not reciprocated [9][11]. - The notion that marriage requires continuous value addition rather than mere selfless giving is emphasized, highlighting that relationships thrive on mutual benefit [13][20]. Group 2: Acceptance Over Change - The difficulty in marriage often stems from the desire to change one's partner, which can lead to conflict and dissatisfaction [26][32]. - A personal account reveals that expecting a partner to evolve into an idealized version can create tension, as seen in a friend's experience with her husband [30][33]. - Recognizing and accepting a partner's imperfections is crucial for a lasting relationship, as true love involves embracing the real, flawed individual [39]. Group 3: Independence Over Dependence - Unrealistic expectations of marriage as a lifelong refuge can lead to disappointment, as illustrated by the story of a woman who lost her identity in her husband's success [41][47]. - The narrative of J.K. Rowling demonstrates that personal hardships can lead to self-reliance and independence, ultimately fostering resilience and personal growth [50][52]. - The realization that true security comes from self-sufficiency rather than reliance on a partner is a vital lesson in navigating relationships [53][54].

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Group 1 - The core idea of the article emphasizes that personal expectations and assumptions about others can lead to disappointment and emotional pain [6][11][12] - The story of Xiao Ying illustrates how high expectations in relationships can result in feelings of betrayal and hurt when others do not reciprocate [10][11] - The article discusses the concept of "self-centeredness" and how imposing one's standards on others can lead to frustration and unhappiness [20][21][22] Group 2 - The narrative of Lin Xiangfu highlights how clinging to past grievances can lead to a lifetime of regret and wasted opportunities [25][26] - The article suggests that true harm often comes from one's inability to let go of past disappointments rather than from others' actions [24][26] - It emphasizes the importance of recognizing that many personal struggles stem from overthinking and projecting one's feelings onto others [28][32] Group 3 - The article concludes with the idea that achieving a state of "no self" can lead to greater freedom and resilience against emotional harm [34][35]

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of establishing healthy family habits to ensure long-term harmony and happiness, suggesting that wealth is not the primary factor for a thriving family, but rather the shared principles and habits that family members adhere to [4][10]. Reading Habit - A strong reading culture within the family is highlighted as essential for fostering a nurturing environment, with the example of a family that prioritized reading together, which enhanced critical thinking and creativity in children [6][7][9]. Financial Management Habit - The article discusses the significance of financial planning and management, illustrating how families with poor financial habits often struggle despite high incomes, while those with sound financial practices can accumulate wealth over time [12][22][24]. Sharing Habit - Effective communication and sharing experiences among family members are presented as vital for maintaining emotional connections, with examples of couples who thrive on open dialogue and sharing daily experiences [26][28][31]. Health Habit - The necessity of prioritizing health is underscored, with statistics indicating that health-related expenses can lead to financial ruin for families. Regular health check-ups and promoting healthy lifestyles are recommended as preventive measures [32][34]. Ritual Habit - The article stresses the importance of rituals in family life, suggesting that simple daily greetings and weekly family activities can strengthen bonds and create shared memories, thus enhancing family unity [35][41][45].

Group 1 - The core idea of the article emphasizes that simplicity and persistence, often perceived as foolishness, can lead to significant achievements in a fast-paced world [9][10][11] - The article references historical figures like Zeng Guofan, who achieved success through seemingly simple strategies, highlighting the effectiveness of patience and hard work over clever tactics [8][9] - It discusses the importance of diligent effort and the value of "foolish" persistence in various fields, including literature and art, as exemplified by authors and artists who dedicated years to their crafts [20][22][24] Group 2 - The article illustrates that those who appear "foolish" often confront challenges head-on, leading to personal growth and success, as seen in the experiences of individuals like Jin Yinan [28][30][36] - It emphasizes that enduring hardship and tackling difficult tasks can yield significant rewards, reinforcing the idea that there are no shortcuts to success [35][38] - The narrative includes anecdotes about individuals who, despite initial setbacks, achieved greatness through unwavering commitment to their principles and hard work [55][57] Group 3 - The article concludes that adopting a humble and generous approach in life can lead to broader opportunities and stability, contrasting the short-term gains of selfishness [59][60] - It uses the character Forrest Gump as an example of how simple dedication and focus can lead to unexpected success, reinforcing the theme that perceived foolishness can be a powerful asset [61][65] - The final message encourages readers to embrace a mindset of humility and perseverance, suggesting that this approach can lead to greater achievements in life [66]