（来源：衢州日报） 转自：衢州日报 冯尚钺 其二，原子化生活和社交空间缺失造成的"空间之虚"。大城市工作的青年大多陷入"公司——住所"两点 一线的生活，有些还面临长时间通勤的烦扰，连周末旅游、聚会都不会轻易参加。而多数城市发展也过 度注重个人消费空间建设，却忽视了"集体"的存在。即便有社区公园、公共图书馆、文化活动中心等就 近的公共社交场所，但高质量活动少，难以将附近的青年凝聚起来，也就更难为"社交破冰"提供载体 了。 这的确描述了某些青年的"似社交非社交"社交倾向。"准社交"的"准"，在中文语境中，也可简单理解 为"虚"，对此，可以做两方面的阐释：一方面，他们有时非常认真地投入感情，但面对的对象却并非真 人；另一方面，当他们面对真人社交的时候，却又下意识回避深度、稳定的社交关系，而采取兴趣搭 子、游戏互动等"轻社交"模式。 面对这种"准社交"，有人认为它提供了更丰富、更低门槛的社交选择，是社会发展的自然趋势。当然， 也有更多人认为"准社交"难以替代真实社交，更不利于人格的健全与社会凝聚力的形成。 问题在于：在"准社交"已经成为一种趋势的情况下，如何推动这些青年的社交活动"脱虚向实"呢？这恐 怕不是一句"少玩 ...

推动社交"脱虚向实"，需要社会层面构建全方位的支撑体系。时间维度上，应倡导更人性化的工作与学 习制度，减少无效加班与过度内卷，让青年拥有可自由支配的闲暇时间，为真实社交预留空间。空间维 度上，基层街道、社区与工会应主动作为，结合青年兴趣举办志愿服务、文体沙龙、技能分享等活动， 将分散的青年凝聚起来。城市建设也需注重公共社交空间的功能升级，让社区公园、图书馆、文化中心 不仅是休闲场所，更成为促进邻里交往、激发社交活力的平台。 更重要的是培育青年健康的社交心态。义务教育阶段应将社交能力与心理健康教育纳入日常教学，通过 小组合作、社会实践等形式，让青少年在真实互动中学会沟通与包容。社会应传递"不完美才是常态"的 社交理念，减少对社交失误的苛责，缓解青年的社交焦虑。鼓励青年从"轻社交"入手，通过兴趣搭子、 线下活动等低压力形式，逐步积累社交经验，重建对真实社交的信心。 有学者提出的"附近"概念，恰是破解社交虚拟化的关键。当青年开始关注身边的人与事，在社区活动中 结识邻里，在兴趣小组中找到同好，真实的社交连接便会自然生长。真实社交或许会有分歧与摩擦，但 正是这些不完美的互动，更能让人学会理解与尊重，培养健全的人格。 黄 ...

Group 1 - The core concept of "parasocial relationships" describes a one-sided emotional connection between fans and celebrities, where fans feel a sense of intimacy despite the lack of reciprocal interaction [1][2] - The term "parasocial" has been selected as the 2025 Word of the Year by the Cambridge Dictionary, reflecting its relevance in contemporary society and the evolution of language [1][2] - The rise of social media and AI technologies, particularly chatbots, has intensified the prevalence of parasocial relationships, allowing individuals to seek emotional support from non-human entities [3][7] Group 2 - The historical context of parasocial relationships dates back to the 1950s, when sociologists first identified the emotional investment viewers have in media figures, highlighting the impact of one-way communication in mass media [2] - The emotional satisfaction derived from parasocial relationships can provide joy and relief from real-life pressures, as fans engage with their favorite celebrities through social media [5][6] - However, there are concerns regarding the potential negative effects of parasocial relationships, particularly for youth, who may develop unhealthy attachments to AI and media figures, leading to isolation and distorted perceptions of real-life relationships [8][9] Group 3 - The influence of parasocial relationships can be positive or negative, depending on the context and the role models involved, with the potential to foster a culture of admiration for heroes or to propagate harmful ideologies [6] - Regulatory measures are being considered globally to mitigate the risks associated with AI and parasocial interactions, emphasizing the need for responsible engagement with technology [8][9] - The importance of balancing parasocial relationships with real-life social interactions is highlighted, suggesting that while they can provide temporary comfort, they should not replace genuine human connections [9]

Core Concept - The article discusses the concept of "parasocial relationships," which refers to the one-sided emotional connections individuals feel towards celebrities or fictional characters, highlighting its relevance in the context of social media and AI advancements [4][5][6]. Group 1: Definition and Origin - "Parasocial" relationships are defined as one-sided emotional connections where individuals feel close to someone they do not know personally, such as celebrities or characters from media [5]. - The term gained prominence due to the rise of mass media, particularly television, in the 1950s, where viewers developed feelings of familiarity with on-screen personalities [5][6]. - The emergence of AI technologies, particularly chatbots, has further popularized the concept, as they can provide emotional support and simulate interactions [6][10]. Group 2: Impact of Social Media and AI - Social media has transformed the dynamics between fans and celebrities, allowing for more direct interaction and creating a sense of closeness that enhances the parasocial experience [7][8]. - The rise of "fan economy" and "influencer economy" is attributed to the parasocial relationships formed through social media, where fans engage deeply with their idols [6][8]. - A significant portion of young people (13.5%) prefer confiding in AI over family members, indicating a shift in emotional support sources [10]. Group 3: Positive and Negative Aspects - Parasocial relationships can provide joy and emotional fulfillment, especially for individuals facing social pressures, as they offer a sense of connection without the burdens of real-life interactions [7][8]. - However, there are concerns that excessive engagement in parasocial relationships may lead to loneliness and a diminished capacity for real-life emotional connections [8][11]. - The influence of AI and social media can create "trust illusions," potentially leading to harmful behaviors among vulnerable populations, particularly teenagers [11][12]. Group 4: Regulatory and Societal Considerations - There is a growing need for regulation of AI interactions, especially concerning minors, to prevent over-reliance on virtual relationships [11][12]. - Countries are beginning to implement measures to protect young users from the potential negative impacts of parasocial relationships facilitated by AI and social media [11][12]. - The article suggests that while parasocial relationships can be beneficial, they should not replace genuine social interactions, and individuals should be encouraged to engage in real-life relationships [12].

"准社交"一词最早于1956年由美国芝加哥大学的两名社会学家提出，用以描述观众与电视名人建立单向 的情感关系。进入互联网时代，这种"准社交"关系也越来越多。《剑桥词典》编纂者科林·麦金托什表 示，这个词"捕捉到了2025年的时代思潮"。他称，科技、社会和文化的变迁与演变也会导致围绕"准社 交"现象的语言快速发展。 剑桥大学实验社会心理学教授西蒙娜·施纳尔则称，"准社交"重新定义了粉丝和名人文化，以及AI如何 改变普通人在网上的互动方式。她认为，随着人们越来越转向社交媒体和网络名人，这可能导致他们与 这些名人之间形成"不健康且过度亲密的关系"。此外，由于AI聊天机器人能提供建立关系的错觉，年轻 人更容易受到影响 。（艾立纷） 【环球时报综合报道】据英国《卫报》18日报道，英国《剑桥词典》当天公布了2025年度词汇："准社 交"（Parasocial）。 报道称，《剑桥词典》在一份声明中解释称，"准社交"指的是人们与虚构角色或网络公众人物建立起的 一种单向且持久的情感联系和互动，对象可以是不认识的名人、书或影视作品中的角色，甚至是AI （人工智能）聊天机器人。 ...