[Música] ¿Cuántas veces te has preguntado hoy si estabas haciendo algo mal sin pensar en todo lo que has hecho bien? Yo llevo siete, pero bueno, al fin y al cabo, yo creo que ese es mi superpoder, comprobar cosas. Vaya superpoder, ¿no? Comprobar la hora, comprobar la mochila, comprobar que he cerrado la puerta de casa, la luz del coche. Soy como Spider-Man, pero mi sentido arácnido es para la duda. Pero he aprendido a diferenciar, dudar de mí. de respetarme tanto que quiero asegurarme de que lo estoy hacien ...

Core Argument - Discipline is presented as an internal mindset, not merely a set of rules or punishments, emphasizing self-control and personal accountability [4][9][26] - The talk highlights the influence of external factors, such as environment and social circles, on an individual's discipline, while reinforcing the idea that the ultimate control lies within oneself [7][8][9] - The presentation explores the potential downsides of discipline when it's driven by stress, external expectations, or negative self-perception, leading to burnout and a lack of self-respect [13][14][20] Key Issues & Solutions - Accountability: The speaker addresses the issue of misplaced accountability, where individuals rely on others (e g, parents, teachers) to enforce discipline, leading to a loss of autonomy [14][16][17] - Potential & Productivity: The talk critiques the pressure to meet potential and the resulting feeling of inadequacy, which can negatively impact self-confidence and self-respect [18][19][20] - Negative Feedback & Attitude: The presentation discusses the destructive nature of negative self-talk and fear-based motivation, which can hinder the positive aspects of discipline [20][21][22] - New Year's Resolutions: The speaker challenges the concept of New Year's resolutions, arguing that they often lead to procrastination and a lack of immediate accountability [23][24][25] Practical Takeaways - Discipline fosters self-respect by holding oneself accountable for their actions and recognizing the positive outcomes of disciplined behavior [27][28] - Change is gradual, and the key is to begin; the decision to start is the most immediate and impactful step towards developing discipline [29][30] - Discipline is internal and should serve the individual; it encourages immediate action and discourages procrastination, emphasizing the importance of doing what's best for oneself [31][33]

[Music] [Music] [Applause] Good afternoon everyone. Very nice to see you all and I'm very privileged to be here today. Thank you for having me.So let's start. >> Are you all good. Let's begin.I have a question for you all. Do you guys struggle to say no just to create space for others. Or how many of you say yes just to please others.I've been here too. I used to say yes to everything, but today I want to share what I have learned from that behavior. I'm a professional model and creator.And usually a lot of ...

[Applause] Today I want to share my thoughts on a personal journey of resilience, transformation, and the power of connection. Have any of you been ever doing all the right things only to find out that somehow you're feeling getting further away from everything. Have you ever got on an elevator, avoided eye contact at any cost, and stared at those numbers as if seven wasn't going to follow six.Or it could also be that you're in a room with, you know, that's a fair size and you're sending a text or an email ...

[Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] The year was 2019. I was beginning a new chapter in the city of Bangalore. A fresher party was being organized in my college.You know the drill. A formal party in front of the professors and an afterparty organized by the seniors. Now I want you all to imagine this scene.A shy, introverted boy gets approached by a few seniors. Hey, you're that new kid from Goa, right. How is it that of all the kids here, you don't have a cigarette.Come, one drag won't hurt. Greetings to th ...

[Music] A few years ago, I had this friend. You know, the kind of someone you in click instantly click with. You'd laugh together, share everything, and nothing feel off limits.We got really close really fast. It was the kind of friendship people search for. But over time, things started to change.She started making little jokes at my expense, calling me dumb, but always in a playful way, she said. I didn't like it, but instead of speaking up, I stayed quiet. I brushed it off and told myself it wasn't a big ...

When I was invited to be a speaker for this year's TEDex South Street, I was really so excited to say yes. But for some reasons like I am not so confident enough for this big stage, big red dot in November. It was a no.But you know what. I get to realize that this is actually a big opportunity to share my thoughts on giving responses to everything that comes our way and especially in today's world that constantly pushes us to say yes to do more or to be more outside our capacity. Hi, I am architect Makia Se ...