以下文章来源于刘知趣 ，作者刘知趣 刘知趣 . 虎嗅、澎湃新闻认证作者，十年互联网市场搬砖女工。曾任职于百度、知乎，现关注新青年一代如何更 好地生活。 本文来自微信公众号： 刘知趣 ，作者：刘知趣，题图来源：AI生成 20世纪初，中国掀起新文化运动的思潮，女性解放问题是重要的议题之一。也正是在这个时期，挪 威剧作家易卜生的戏剧《玩偶之家》 （又被译作《娜拉》） 传入中国，许多有理想的知识女性深受 鼓舞，舆论将剧中女主人公娜拉的出走，视为女性解放的终极目标。 彼时的中国，女性的就业机会极为稀少，大多数职业都被男性垄断。即便接受过教育的女性，也面临 着 "毕业即失业" 的困境，经济上仍无可避免地要依赖男性或家庭。在这样的社会大背景下，"娜拉 出走"的背后其实缺乏现实的支撑。 1923年的冬天，鲁迅在北京女子高等师范学校 （北京师范大学前身） 的礼堂发表了一场名为《娜拉 走后怎样》的演讲，戳破了人们当时对"女性解放"的浪漫化想象。 但从事理上推想起来，娜拉或者也实在只有两条路： 不是堕落，就是回来。 因为如果是一匹小鸟，则笼子里固然不自由，而一出笼门，外面便又有鹰，有猫，以及别的什么东西 之类；倘使已经关得麻痹了翅 ...

从实际操作上讲，现在结婚只需要身份证，而离婚需要申请—受理—冷静期—审查—登记五个步骤，结婚和离婚本身确实更加"宽进严出"了。 但是不是"诈骗"，可能需要从更多的角度来看待。 领证用户口簿，5亿人都得"跑一趟" 本文来自微信公众号：新周刊 （ID：new-weekly），作者：王阿姨，编辑：詹腾宇，原文标题：《年轻人最不缺的结婚条件，被取消了》，题图来源： AI生成 顺应时代需求，简化手续流程的初心是好的，但户口簿并不是结婚这件事的决定性因素。这一事件让当代年轻人对结婚保持更为审慎的态度，这无疑是一 种进步。 5月10日，新修订的《婚姻登记条例》开始实施，其中婚姻登记实现"全国通办"、结婚登记不再需要提供户口簿等新规定。 近几天，第一批不用户口簿领证的年轻人已经在社交媒体晒出了新的领证流程，但更加便利的领证方式，但却引发了年轻人的集体"警觉"，评论区流传最 多的一句话是："宽进严出是诈骗"。 宽进，指的是领证变得更加容易，以前领证需要户口簿，现在可以绕过从父母那里拿户口簿这步，"私定终身"更容易；严出，对应的是2020年1月实施的 《中华人民共和国民法典》新规定，30天的离婚冷静期。 中国的流动人口数量近十几 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the evolution of women's social status and rights in China, highlighting the historical context of women's liberation and the ongoing challenges they face despite progress in education and employment opportunities [5][6]. Group 1: Historical Context - The early 20th century saw the rise of the New Culture Movement in China, with women's liberation being a significant topic, influenced by Ibsen's play "A Doll's House" [1]. - Lu Xun's 1923 speech "What Happens After Nora Leaves" critiqued the romanticized notions of women's liberation prevalent at the time [2]. Group 2: Current Challenges - Despite advancements in women's rights over the past century, many women still face societal challenges that hinder their independence and economic self-sufficiency [5][6]. - The perception that women can easily achieve independence in a competitive job market is misleading, as many still rely on familial support [6]. Group 3: Parental Influence - Middle-class parents often overprotect their daughters, creating a "protective umbrella" that may limit their exposure to real-world challenges [7][8]. - This overprotection can lead to unrealistic expectations and a lack of understanding of societal complexities, making it difficult for these girls to navigate adult life [11][12]. Group 4: Wealth and Education - Many middle-class families mistakenly believe that material wealth, such as property, guarantees their children's future security, despite the changing economic landscape [15][16]. - The focus on non-essential skills and interests in education may detract from developing essential survival skills necessary for independence [17][19]. Group 5: Marriage and Independence - The traditional family structure often leads daughters to fantasize about finding a "good husband" rather than fostering a competitive spirit [20][21]. - This mindset can result in a lack of preparedness for the realities of adult life and relationships, as many women may find themselves unprepared for the challenges of marriage and financial independence [25][26].

本报讯 （记者袁传玺）5月10日，我国婚姻登记制度迎来历史性变革——新修订的《婚姻登记条例》正 式施行，取消户口簿要求、实现"全国通办"，仅凭身份证即可完成登记。 政策迭代背后是数以亿计的流动人口对"领证自由"的迫切需求。今年4月份，Soul App对年轻人婚姻登 记态度变迁做了调研。经过调研发现，当代年轻人认为，领证是爱情从浪漫到现实的"仪式感里程碑"。 调研显示，91.2%的年轻人坚持法律保障作为婚姻基石，同时72.6%受访者热衷将国风旅拍、景区颁证 等创新形式融入登记仪式，展现传统契约精神与个性化表达的交融。同时，年轻人在婚姻登记行为中呈 现"法律根基稳固，仪式创新多元"的特征——既强调法律保障与社会认同，也通过个性化仪式重构婚恋 价值表达。 在调研中，Soul App方面发现了很多特点，一是双轨并行，九成青年坚守法律保障，七成重构仪式形 态。50.83%的95后坚持"必须领证"，同时超七成受访者将国潮服饰、萌宠见证等个性化元素融入登记仪 式，传统契约精神与创新表达形成共生。二是婚旅融合，六成青年愿为体验买单。"领证+旅行"模式获 63.4%的95后青睐，与新政催生的"婚登+文旅"消费趋势深度契合，杭州 ...

新加坡《海峡时报》 5 月 12 日文章，原题：她曾跨越印巴边境结婚，她的孩子们不会了 2014年，印度公 民阿芙辛·贾汉吉尔女士与巴基斯坦男子结婚时，她延续了家族长期以来的跨境联姻传统。 这位今年32岁的女性来自贾汉吉尔家族，该族群居于印巴交界处。阿芙辛结婚当天，她的兄长也迎娶了 一位巴基斯坦女性。此前还有3位姑姑和一位叔叔与巴基斯坦西拉瓦提家族联姻。 对贾汉吉尔家族而言，这些联姻是巩固与巴基斯坦亲属联系的纽带。但这一自1947年印巴分治以来历经 两国关系起伏的传统，可能在阿芙辛这一代终结。5月6日，她在巴基斯坦卡拉奇市通过电话告诉我，阿 芙辛不想让现年7岁和9岁的儿女像她一样跨境结婚，因为如今持续不断的双边紧张局势导致家庭分离， 她不希望孩子们遭受这样的对待。 印巴跨国婚姻长期以来是两国民间联系的基石。但随着双边关系紧张和跨境通行困难加剧，越来越少人 愿意跨国联姻，进一步减少了印巴民众的接触。未来二三十年间，随着绝大多数经历过分治前印度的人 们相继离世，这道鸿沟还将扩大——这两个南亚邻国将更难深刻理解彼此的血脉联系。 事实上，早在4月22日前，印巴间航班、巴士和铁路服务已停运5年多，跨境通行早已受阻。两国 ...

"钱不是万能的，但没有钱是万万不能的"，这句话在婚姻中尤其适用。 美国一项长达25年的追踪研究发现，经常为钱吵架的夫妻，离婚率是其他夫妻的3倍（Britt & Huston， 2012）。更值得注意的是，金钱冲突的破坏力远超家务矛盾、婆媳纠纷，甚至堪比"性生活不和 谐"（Dew et al.， 2012）。 金钱问题一直是夫妻争吵的常见导火索，如果你认为吵架只是"钱多钱少"的问题，那就大错特错了！ Peetz等人（2023）在《Journal of Social and Personal Relationships》发表的研究，通过对社交媒体平台 1，200条财务冲突求助帖（Study 1）和436对已婚夫妻的深度访谈（Study 2）的系统分析，揭开了婚姻 中金钱冲突的真相： 夫妻吵的不是钱，而是权力、情感和价值观的深层博弈。 一、数据真相：金钱冲突的破坏力远超想象 "钱"是婚姻的隐形杀手。在长期关系中，40%的夫妻将财务问题列为首要矛盾（Meyer & Sledge， 2022）。此外，一项追踪100对夫妻15天的研究发现，每天约有5%的争吵因钱而起（Papp et al.， 2009）。 这类冲突的"毒 ...

中国婚育率的下降趋势已经众所周知。而依据宏观数据，中国人的结婚模式发生巨大变化，是在2010年后。 大家好，我叫刘汶蓉，来自上海社会科学院社会学研究所，一直从事家庭社会学研究。非常高兴今天有机会来这里，和大家分享我关于"大城市青年人的 婚恋趋势、困境和社会过程"的研究和一些思考。 这是我国的初婚年龄趋势图。我们可以看到2010年之前的曲线相对平滑，2000年到2010年，男女的平均初婚年龄都只上升了0.7岁左右，基本在25岁上 下。但在2010年到2020年这十年间，男女的平均初婚年龄都上涨了近4岁，曲线出现了一个巨大的上扬。 其实关于青年人结婚难、结婚焦虑、晚婚不婚等现象的讨论，已经非常多了。而我希望跟大家分享的是：带入我的代际关系研究，把婚姻关系放在家庭这 个场域中，我们到底怎么去看待青年人这个问题？青年人真的不再向往结婚，也不再向往生育了吗？ 2023年底，我对北京、上海、广州的21～40岁不在读的青年人进行了一项2400份问卷的抽样调查。数据显示，北上广青年人的理想结婚年龄平均为31.5 岁，男女差别不大。这个年龄已经和全球生育洼地日本、韩国的平均初婚年龄基本持平。 一、婚姻价值的变革 结婚年龄的推迟 ...

民政部有关负责人就婚姻登记"全国通办"政策答记者问。 新修订的《婚姻登记条例》自5月10日起施行，其中规定婚姻登记实现"全国通办"，进一步提高了婚姻登 记的便利性。民政部近日印发修订后的《婚姻登记工作规范》，并就"全国通办"政策等社会关心的问题回 答了记者提问。 问：婚姻登记"全国通办"的具体受理范围是什么呢？ 答： 双方均是内地居民的结婚登记、离婚登记和补领婚姻登记证件都属于全国通办的受理范围。一方是 内地居民，另一方是外国人、港澳台居民或者华侨的结婚登记、离婚登记和补领婚姻登记证件也属于"全 国通办"的受理范围，可以在任一有相关婚姻登记权限的婚姻登记机关办理。 问：婚姻登记"全国通办"之后，领结婚证不用户口簿了，确实方便很多，那当事人还需要提前准备哪些材 料呢？ 答： 婚姻登记"全国通办"以后，内地居民申请结婚登记，男女双方只需要出具本人的居民身份证，本人无 配偶以及与对方当事人没有直系血亲和三代以内旁系血亲关系的签字声明，不再需要出具户口簿。 对当 事人来说，需要出具的证件、证明材料精简了，办理婚姻登记更加便捷了。在证件齐备、材料准确、核查 一致的基础上，婚姻登记机关将为双方办理婚姻登记。 问：为保证当 ...

Core Points - The newly revised Marriage Registration Regulations will be implemented nationwide starting May 10, allowing marriage registration without regional restrictions and without the need for a household registration book [1][18] - The policy aims to facilitate marriage registration for individuals working away from their registered residence, particularly benefiting the 376 million mobile population in China, including 125 million inter-provincial migrants [1] - The implementation coincides with the peak wedding registration month of May, particularly around the popular date of May 20, leading to a surge in appointment bookings [1][9] Group 1: Implementation and Statistics - On the first day of the new regulations, over 1,700 couples in Beijing made marriage registration appointments, with approximately 900 involving the "national service" [1] - In Shanghai, 1,673 couples registered, with 462 (27.6%) utilizing the "national service" [3] - Jiangsu reported 1,370 couples registered, including 237 under the "national service" [3] - Shenzhen recorded 439 registrations, with 149 couples not holding local household registrations [4] - Chengdu facilitated 746 registrations across 29 extended service points [6] Group 2: Popularity of Registration Dates - The date of May 20, known for its phonetic similarity to "I love you," is a highly sought-after date for marriage registrations, leading to full bookings in many cities [9][12] - Various cities, including Guangzhou and Hangzhou, reported that appointments for May 20 and 21 were fully booked, prompting officials to encourage staggered bookings [9][12][17] - In Nanchang, all marriage registration offices were fully booked for May 20 as of May 11 [14] Group 3: Changes in Registration Requirements - The revised regulations eliminate the need for a household registration book for marriage and divorce applications, requiring only a resident ID and a signed declaration of no direct blood relations [18][19] - The regulations also emphasize the addition of marriage and family service work and the optimization of marriage registration services [18]

Group 1 - The newly revised Marriage Registration Regulations, effective from May 1, eliminate the requirement for a household registration book for both marriage and divorce registrations, but the divorce cooling-off period imposes significant restrictions, making divorce not easy despite the removal of the household registration requirement [1][3] - The implementation of the divorce cooling-off period has led to a decrease in the proportion of consensual divorces from 86.1% in 2020 to 71.94% in 2023, while litigation divorces increased from 13.9% to 28.06%, indicating that the cooling-off period has not effectively strengthened marriages [3][4] - The number of marriage registrations in 2024 has reached a historical low since 1980, reflecting a shift in attitudes towards marriage, with some individuals opting not to marry due to the complexities of divorce [4][16] Group 2 - The divorce cooling-off period has resulted in couples preferring litigation over mediation, as they find court-mediated resolutions quicker than waiting for the cooling-off period to end [6][8] - The cooling-off period may exacerbate conflicts between couples, as one party may withdraw their divorce application during this time, leading to increased distrust and resentment [6][7] - The cooling-off period and the prohibition on litigation can create unfair situations regarding property distribution, as the initial court ruling may not address asset division, allowing one party to potentially transfer assets during the waiting period [10][12] Group 3 - Women, particularly full-time mothers, are more likely to be disadvantaged by the cooling-off period, as they may lack knowledge about family finances and find themselves in a vulnerable position during divorce proceedings [12][18] - The trend of individuals choosing to cohabit rather than marry is increasing, as many perceive marriage as complicated and burdensome due to the cooling-off period [16][19] - The complexity of asset division in divorces has increased due to the variety of assets involved, including intangible assets like stocks and cryptocurrencies, making the process more challenging [14][20]