十点人物志 . 在这里，遇见每一个值得被记录的人 以下文章来源于十点人物志 ，作者芝士咸鱼 本文来自微信公众号： 十点人物志 ，作者：芝士咸鱼，题图来自：视觉中国 "断亲"，近年来是社交媒体上的热词，用来描述年轻人主动与"扫兴亲戚"划清界限，既是成年之后边 界意识的觉醒，也是一种自我保护。 但现在，你有没有发觉： 越来越多中年人也默默开始断亲？ 人到中年，父母相继离世，维系家庭的核心纽带断裂。原本以父母为中心维系的手足情谊，逐渐开始 松动。在料理身后事与分配遗产的关键时刻，隐忍多年的误解与委屈往往被瞬间引爆，一场饭桌上的 争执，便可能成为中年人与兄弟姐妹疏远甚至断联的根源。 据最高人民法院 2024年公报， 全国继承纠纷案件同比增长约 38.92%。大量纠纷的背后，折射出手 足亲情的彻底破裂。多项社会学研究也指出，在父母离世后，兄弟姐妹之间的联系会显著减少，呈 现"降温"趋势。 为什么最讲血缘与亲情的 60后、70后，逐渐开始选择"断亲"？曾经亲密无间的兄弟姐妹，又是如何 在生活的洪流中渐行渐远的？ 中年人的"断亲潮"，从父母离世 开始 在多子女家庭中，父母往往是兄弟姐妹之间最后的 "情感粘合剂"。哪怕他们平 ...

"断亲"，近年来是社交媒体上的热词，用来描述年轻人主动与"扫兴亲戚"划清界限，既是成年之后边界意识的觉醒，也是一种自我保护。 但现在，你有没有发觉：越来越多中年人也默默开始断亲？ 人到中年，父母相继离世，维系家庭的核心纽带断裂。原本以父母为中心维系的手足情谊，逐渐开始松动。在料理身后事与分配遗产的关键时刻，隐忍多 年的误解与委屈往往被瞬间引爆，一场饭桌上的争执，便可能成为中年人与兄弟姐妹疏远甚至断联的根源。 据最高人民法院2024年公报，全国继承纠纷案件同比增长约38.92%。大量纠纷的背后，折射出手足亲情的彻底破裂。多项社会学研究也指出，在父母离 世后，兄弟姐妹之间的联系会显著减少，呈现"降温"趋势。 为什么最讲血缘与亲情的60后、70后，逐渐开始选择"断亲"？曾经亲密无间的兄弟姐妹，又是如何在生活的洪流中渐行渐远的？ 中年人的"断亲潮"，从父母离世开始 在多子女家庭中，父母往往是兄弟姐妹之间最后的"情感粘合剂"。哪怕他们平时性格不合、价值观存在分歧，每到逢年过节或遇父母生病、做重大抉择的 时候，所有家庭成员仍会围坐在一起商议。但一旦这层粘合剂不复存在，很多人与手足之间的联系，也随之失去了必要性。 遗产分配 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the psychological dilemmas faced by the post-80s generation, highlighting their survival and security anxieties rooted in childhood experiences and familial relationships [1][2][3]. Group 1: Psychological Dilemmas - The post-80s generation experiences significant survival and security anxieties, stemming from their childhoods marked by economic struggles and familial pressures [3][4]. - Many in this generation grew up in families that were just beginning to meet basic needs, leading to a deep-seated sense of insecurity and anxiety [4][5]. - The lack of secure attachment figures during childhood has contributed to ongoing psychological issues, as many did not form stable emotional bonds with caregivers [6][7]. Group 2: Cultural Relationships - The post-80s generation is characterized by a strong sense of filial piety, despite having had challenging familial experiences [12]. - There is a cultural shift as their children challenge traditional notions of family loyalty, leading to a growing trend of "cutting ties" with relatives [13][16]. - This generational conflict creates feelings of fear and helplessness among the post-80s, as they worry about being rejected or abandoned by their children [16][24]. Group 3: Parenting Challenges - The post-80s parents often provide materially for their children but struggle with emotional and relational nurturing due to their own upbringing [18][20]. - Many children of the post-80s generation are facing mental health issues, including depression, leading to school dropout and family distress [22][23]. - The inability of post-80s parents to connect emotionally with their children exacerbates the tension in parent-child relationships, resulting in feelings of helplessness [21][24]. Group 4: Pathways to Resolution - To address their psychological dilemmas, the post-80s generation is encouraged to engage in self-reflection and personal growth activities, such as outdoor activities and arts [25]. - Learning from traditional Chinese culture and philosophies can provide insights and coping mechanisms for their emotional struggles [25]. - Building connections with others and helping those in need can foster a sense of community and self-worth, aiding in their psychological healing [25].