在她的文字中，更多女性的期待和匮乏得以被诉说。 《代笔作家》 网络文学长期被视为"难登大雅之堂"的消遣性娱乐，聚焦女性情爱的言情小说更是"小众之小众"。 清华大学人文学院讲师薛静却在这个小众的领域浸泡了14年之久。她撰写的《脂粉帝国：网络言情小说与女性话语政治》系统分析了网络言情小说的几次 转型，以及霸总文、穿越文、宫斗文等爆火的网文类型背后，分别藏着哪些未能言说的欲望。 "选择成为"女性 薛静和网络文学的故事，最早可以追溯到中学时期。她在网站上追更明晓溪的《泡沫之夏》，那还是拨号上网的时代，因为怕被父母发现，薛静每次都会 等新章节加载完成后迅速断网。 后来薛静考入北京大学中文系，很多人和她聊严肃文学，但往往不出十分钟对方就会露馅。不得不承认，虽然很多人对文学怀抱旖旎的想象，但未必能读 完人民文学出版的四大名著。真正启迪大众的精神食粮，恰恰是处于"鄙视链底端"的通俗文学。 2015年，北京大学网络文学研究论坛成立，薛静在这里结识了很多偷偷读网文长大的女孩，她们出于共同的、隐秘的爱，聚集成学术共同体。这里没有文 学的鄙视链，她们可以分析这个爱好为什么曾与羞耻绑定，也在喜欢的网文中看清彼此的爱情观和价值观。 网文 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the psychological dilemmas faced by the post-80s generation, highlighting their survival and security anxieties rooted in childhood experiences and familial relationships [1][2][3]. Group 1: Psychological Dilemmas - The post-80s generation experiences significant survival and security anxieties, stemming from their childhoods marked by economic struggles and familial pressures [3][4]. - Many in this generation grew up in families that were just beginning to meet basic needs, leading to a deep-seated sense of insecurity and anxiety [4][5]. - The lack of secure attachment figures during childhood has contributed to ongoing psychological issues, as many did not form stable emotional bonds with caregivers [6][7]. Group 2: Cultural Relationships - The post-80s generation is characterized by a strong sense of filial piety, despite having had challenging familial experiences [12]. - There is a cultural shift as their children challenge traditional notions of family loyalty, leading to a growing trend of "cutting ties" with relatives [13][16]. - This generational conflict creates feelings of fear and helplessness among the post-80s, as they worry about being rejected or abandoned by their children [16][24]. Group 3: Parenting Challenges - The post-80s parents often provide materially for their children but struggle with emotional and relational nurturing due to their own upbringing [18][20]. - Many children of the post-80s generation are facing mental health issues, including depression, leading to school dropout and family distress [22][23]. - The inability of post-80s parents to connect emotionally with their children exacerbates the tension in parent-child relationships, resulting in feelings of helplessness [21][24]. Group 4: Pathways to Resolution - To address their psychological dilemmas, the post-80s generation is encouraged to engage in self-reflection and personal growth activities, such as outdoor activities and arts [25]. - Learning from traditional Chinese culture and philosophies can provide insights and coping mechanisms for their emotional struggles [25]. - Building connections with others and helping those in need can foster a sense of community and self-worth, aiding in their psychological healing [25].