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当孩子说讨厌学习时,他的大脑正在发生什么
Jing Ji Guan Cha Wang· 2025-08-23 03:13
简简周说 当10岁的菲菲把作业本摔在地上时,她大脑中的情绪警报中心——杏仁核正过度激活,发出强烈的危险信号。这瞬间抑制了负责冷静思考与自我控制的大脑 指挥部——前额叶皮层的功能。这个时候,她很难做出家长所期待的明智行为。不是不想做到,而是做不到。所以,当孩子烦躁地喊出"我讨厌学习"时,不 是他"懒"或"不懂事",站在脑科学的角度,这是他的大脑在发出红色警报。理解这些科学真相,是帮助孩子的第一步。 1.为什么孩子一学习就烦躁 很多孩子都曾跟我说过,"我很想好好学,但不知道为什么,一看到学习的内容就觉得烦躁,看不下去。 曾经有个初三的男生,一到考试就肚子疼,甚至干呕。 脑成像显示,当他看到数学题时,他大脑中处理身体疼痛的区域(如前扣带回皮层、岛叶)竟然被激活了。 这从神经科学上证实,他的肚子疼、恶心,并不是装的,而是极度焦虑在身体上的真实表达。这种反应与大脑处理社会排斥和情感痛苦的神经网络被高度激 活有关。 神经科学领域的共识是,长期的压力激素(皮质醇)水平过高,还会损害海马体的健康——这是大脑中负责记忆编码的核心区域。 影像学研究证实,持续的高压状态与儿童及青少年海马体体积的缩小显著相关。 所以,当孩子持续在压 ...
美德受奖赏,社风更向上(金台随笔)
Ren Min Ri Bao· 2025-07-01 22:19
Group 1 - The article emphasizes the growing trend of altruism and moral courage in society, highlighting that more individuals are willing to help those in danger or difficulty, reflecting a positive social atmosphere [1][2] - It discusses the importance of collective recognition of the value of bravery and the need for supportive policies, legal frameworks, and social backing to foster a culture of helping others [2][3] - The article contrasts two stories from Confucius's teachings, illustrating that accepting rewards for good deeds can encourage more people to act altruistically, while selfless acts without recognition may not inspire others [2] Group 2 - A recent incident involving a restaurant owner who sacrificed his life to save a drowning child has sparked widespread community support, demonstrating how one act of heroism can inspire collective goodwill [3] - The article highlights the significance of remembering and honoring heroes, as seen in the efforts of students at Yangzhou University who have been documenting the stories of surviving veterans, thereby preserving history and promoting moral values [3] - It concludes with a call for everyone to become guardians and promoters of virtue, suggesting that such collective efforts will lead to societal progress and development [4]