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Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of character and personality in determining the trustworthiness and depth of relationships, suggesting that true character is revealed in how individuals treat others, especially those weaker than themselves [11][12][18]. Group 1: Attitude Towards the Weak - A person's true character is best revealed in their treatment of the weak, as stated by Dostoevsky [12][13]. - Individuals who display superiority over those less fortunate often lack true elegance and humility [21][23]. - Respect and empathy towards others, regardless of their status, are indicators of a noble character [24][25]. Group 2: Choices in the Face of Benefits - The pursuit of personal gain is a natural instinct, and how one navigates this pursuit reveals their true character [28][30]. - Individuals who evade responsibility in financial matters, such as avoiding payment, are deemed untrustworthy [32][35]. - Those who maintain integrity and honesty in the face of financial temptation are considered worthy of deeper relationships [44][45]. Group 3: Behavior When Angry - A person's reaction when provoked can reflect their true character and upbringing [48][50]. - Maintaining composure and expressing grievances rationally during conflicts is a sign of maturity [61][62]. - Individuals who react with anger and volatility are less likely to be trustworthy companions [61][62]. Group 4: Accountability for Mistakes - Individuals who deflect blame and avoid responsibility are often seen as immature and unreliable [65][66]. - True character is revealed when one takes responsibility for their actions, as illustrated by the example of Matsushita Konosuke [72][75]. - Those who accept their responsibilities provide a sense of security to those around them [78].