海底捞"小便门"当事人及其父母登报道歉，使该事件在时隔近一年后再次进入公众视野。 1月8日，《人民法院报》第3版刊登了当事人唐某及其父母的道歉声明。唐某称，自己已接受来自家 长、学校、公安、法院，以及网络上广大消费者的批评与教育，"我会吸取深刻的教训，改过自新。长 大后，我要努力成为一位对家庭，对国家，对社会有担当的人"。其父母也表示："作为监护人，我们对 于孩子做出的不当行为深表歉意！对判决结果没有异议，今后一定引以为戒，加强对孩子的教育，引导 他成长为一名行为规范的好公民。" 该事件始于2025年，当年3月，一段"在海底捞火锅内小便"的短视频在网络广泛传播，引发舆论哗然。 随后，上海黄浦警方通报，对涉案的17岁男子唐某和吴某依法作出行政拘留处罚。同年9月，上海市黄 浦区人民法院作出判决，要求两名未成年人及其监护人在指定报刊公开赔礼道歉，并向涉事餐饮公司赔 偿经济损失共计220万元。 这起事件的恶劣性不言而喻。两名当事人酒后在海底捞包间内站上餐桌，公然向火锅内小便，还拍摄视 频上传网络，不仅严重污染了就餐环境、侵害了餐饮企业的合法权益，更以极具侮辱性的方式挑战了社 会公序良俗，践踏了公共道德底线。事件曝光后 ...

□唐传艳 12月21日凌晨5时左右，因朋友发烧，女子刁某陪同其到西昌市某医院就诊。就诊过程中，医生选择先 治疗另一重症患者，刁某不满朋友就诊等待时间过长，用手扇了医院值班医生一耳光后逃逸。案发后， 当地民警立即赶到现场开展调查工作，锁定违法行为人刁某，联系未果后，让其家属对其开展劝导工 作。12月21日中午，刁某到北城派出所投案自首。刁某因殴打他人已被警方依法处以行政拘留5日的处 罚。（12月25日《重庆日报》） 其实，在就医过程中，因不了解规则而错怪医务人员的现象十分常见。医院是一个复杂的场所，有着各 种各样的规章制度和就医流程，对于普通患者和家属来说，可能并不十分熟悉。比如，挂号、就诊、检 查、取药等环节，都有相应的规定和顺序，如果不了解这些规则，就可能会在就医过程中遇到各种问 题，从而产生不满情绪。有些人可能会因为排队时间长、检查项目多等原因，将怨气发泄到医务人员身 上，认为他们故意刁难或者服务不到位。 预防伤医事件，除了要做好安保等其他工作之外，进一步普及规则和涵养规则意识，也是重要手段之 一。可以通过多种方式，向患者和家属普及就医规则和流程，让他们了解医院的运作方式，明白每个环 节的必要性和重要性。 ...

转自：成都日报锦观 破解"网闹"乱象，基层治理当不怯不纵 而要打破这种循环，就不能只局限在被动处理"网闹"的思维里，更要立足标本兼治，让规则意识成为共 识。 一方面要划清合理维权与任性"网闹"的边界，以有力约束截断"闹即得利"的预期。相关部门要对此类行 为严肃追责，网络平台也要扛起主体责任，避免在谣言传播时"给流量、博关注"，在辟谣回应时"不理 会、不推流"。法律法规是人们行为的准绳，任何合理诉求都理应按规则去反馈，借由歪曲事实、煽动 情绪施压的"网闹"，本质上是对公共秩序的破坏，必须依法依规纠治。 当大量公共资源被拖入"谁闹谁有理"的泥潭中，这不仅是对基层精力的过度消耗，也在一定程度上冲击 着正常的社会秩序。如何让基层治理不再被无由来的"网闹"所扰、困于"怕闹"？这就需要以守好规则底 线、提升治理效能来及时切断"网闹"乱象的示范传导。 人们为什么会选择"网闹"？问题的症结，出在"闹即得利"的错误认知上。 从当事人的角度来说，部分人觉得循规蹈矩维权见效慢、收益低，要快速兑现诉求，就要懂得以舆论声 势向基层单位施压，于是便出现了不少歪曲事实、放大情绪的"网络维权"。从社交平台到围观流量，都 成了当事人的博弈工具 ...

Core Viewpoint - The incident involving a man in ancient costume attempting to ride a horse into the ecological corridor of Erhai Lake highlights the conflict between individual actions and public rules, reflecting a lack of awareness regarding the importance of ecological protection and public order [1][2]. Group 1: Incident Overview - A video showing a man in ancient attire trying to enter the ecological corridor of Erhai Lake sparked significant attention on social media, leading to a confrontation with security personnel [1]. - The man's actions are seen as a performance aimed at gaining attention, rather than a genuine expression of cultural values [1][2]. Group 2: Ecological and Social Implications - The prohibition against horses in the ecological corridor is justified due to concerns about pollution from horse manure and potential safety risks to tourists [2]. - The incident challenges societal consensus on ecological protection, as the individual disregards established rules under the pretext of merely passing through [2]. Group 3: Public Reaction and Cultural Reflection - Public criticism of the man's behavior indicates a strong societal commitment to rule awareness, emphasizing that rules apply equally to everyone, regardless of their social media following [3]. - The event raises questions about the understanding of "ancient culture," suggesting that true cultural heritage involves respect for nature and social order, rather than superficial imitation [3]. Group 4: Recommendations for Mitigation - To prevent similar incidents, it is essential for platforms to enhance content moderation and penalize creators who violate rules [2]. - Strengthening legal frameworks for ecological protection and clearly communicating behavioral boundaries in sensitive areas are necessary steps to uphold public order [2].

Core Viewpoint - The incident involving a man in ancient costume attempting to ride a horse into the ecological corridor of Erhai Lake highlights the conflict between individual actions and public rules, reflecting a lack of awareness regarding the importance of ecological protection and public order in the age of social media [1][2]. Group 1: Incident Overview - A video showing a man in ancient attire trying to enter the ecological corridor was widely shared on social media, leading to a confrontation with security personnel [1]. - The man's actions were framed as a performance for attention, showcasing a disregard for established rules and the collective responsibility of maintaining public spaces [1][2]. Group 2: Ecological and Social Implications - The prohibition against horses in the ecological corridor is justified due to potential pollution from horse manure and safety risks posed to other visitors [2]. - The incident raises questions about the motivations behind such actions by social media influencers, who often exploit public conflicts for attention, undermining societal consensus on ecological protection [2][3]. Group 3: Public Reaction and Cultural Reflection - Public backlash against the man's behavior indicates a strong societal commitment to rule adherence, emphasizing that rules apply equally to everyone, regardless of their social media following [3]. - The event serves as a reminder that true cultural heritage involves respect for nature and social order, rather than merely imitating historical appearances without understanding their underlying values [3].

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of nurturing boys through various life skills and experiences, highlighting that self-discipline, resilience, and responsibility are cultivated through practical experiences rather than mere verbal instruction [4][33]. Group 1: Cultivating Self-Discipline - Establishing rules is essential for boys' growth, as it lays the foundation for self-management and responsibility [6][7]. - Self-monitoring techniques, such as tracking daily tasks, can help improve habits and instill a sense of accountability [6][7]. Group 2: Building Resilience - Experiencing setbacks during childhood is crucial for developing emotional regulation and self-control [9]. - Parents should allow children to face manageable failures and encourage them to reflect on how to improve in the future [9]. Group 3: Delayed Gratification - Research from Harvard indicates that the ability to delay gratification is linked to long-term happiness and success [12]. - Encouraging children to plan their daily routines and conduct weekly self-reviews can foster this skill [12]. Group 4: Fostering Order and Organization - A child's ability to organize their space often reflects their internal order [16]. - Teaching children to tidy up and manage their belongings can enhance their planning and systematic thinking skills [16]. Group 5: Long-term Commitment - Engaging in long-term hobbies can significantly contribute to developing self-discipline [20]. - The focus should be on consistent effort and achieving incremental goals, which helps children understand the value of perseverance [20]. Group 6: Responsibility Development - Allowing boys to take on small responsibilities in daily tasks prepares them for larger responsibilities in adulthood [24]. - Recognizing children as capable individuals fosters their sense of responsibility and capability [24]. Group 7: Communication Skills - Training boys in effective communication can prevent emotional outbursts and enhance their interpersonal skills [28]. - Encouraging them to express their feelings and listen to others is vital for their social development [28]. Group 8: Cognitive Depth and Critical Thinking - Boys should be guided to think critically and integrate knowledge from various fields rather than just focusing on academic performance [32]. - This approach aligns with Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences, emphasizing the importance of diverse cognitive skills [32].