今天的文章，我删删改改了很多遍，一直在犹豫要不要写出来。 但这事太重要了，每个人都可能会遇到，还是决定写出来想和大家分享，希望大家看 完后 能都重视起来，引起警戒。 几天前，好友打来语音，说家里出了 事，想找我借点钱。 他说，不是不得已，自己是张不开这口的。主要是家里的老母亲突发心肌梗塞，砸了十几 万，人才好不容易从ICU中抢救回来。医生说，想保证今后的生命质量，还得做心脏搭桥才 行，至少要再付出几十万。 在我的印象里，他的 条件还可以，前几年买了房，按理说不至于到找别人开口借钱的地 步，这次主动开口，说明是真的遇到难处了。 后来才知道， 他在的公司年初解散了整个团队 ，没有进账不说，每个月还得还一大笔房贷、 养一大家子人。 如果做开颅手术，康复的几率也很小， 一百万花下去也不排除人财两空的结果。 朋友巨大的压力，我非常理解。 作为多年老友，我很想去帮助他，但心里又很纠结。 借钱吧，知道治病是个无底洞，还上这笔钱遥遥无期，自己手头也没那么宽裕。不借吧，心 里又实在是过意不去， 今天四处求钱的是他，明天可能就是我。 最后拧巴了半天，还是转了些块钱过去，想让自己内心好受点。 说实话，到现在我都没缓过来。 这些年也 ...

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