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Core Perspective - The article highlights the evolution of Zong Fuli, a prominent female leader in the beverage industry, showcasing her journey from being perceived as a "little princess" to a powerful figure capable of transforming the industry and challenging traditional gender roles [1][2][19]. Group 1: Leadership and Vision - Zong Fuli took control of Hongsheng Group in 2007, demonstrating her leadership by personally overseeing the company's operations and aesthetic choices, reflecting her strong vision and attention to detail [3][5]. - Under her leadership, Hongsheng Group evolved from a small contract manufacturer to a comprehensive beverage giant, establishing a complete supply chain and significantly reducing reliance on imported materials [6][7]. - Zong Fuli's ambition extends beyond profit; she aims to innovate industry standards and contribute to societal development, as evidenced by her establishment of the Fuli Food Research Institute with a donation of 70 million yuan [7]. Group 2: Family Dynamics and Challenges - The relationship between Zong Fuli and her father, Zong Qinghou, is characterized by both admiration and a desire to surpass him, indicating a complex dynamic in the family business [8][12]. - Following Zong Qinghou's death in 2024, Zong Fuli faced significant challenges, including disputes over inheritance and management control, revealing underlying tensions within the family and the company [13][14]. - Zong Fuli's decisive actions post her father's passing, such as closing factories linked to former executives and attempting to transfer key trademarks, illustrate her commitment to reshaping the company despite facing resistance [16][17]. Group 3: Industry Impact and Future Outlook - Zong Fuli's strategic decisions have led to increased revenue and profit for Wahaha since she took over, indicating her effective management and vision for growth [12]. - The article suggests that Zong Fuli's approach may inspire a new generation of women in business, as she embodies resilience and determination in a traditionally male-dominated industry [19].

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the growing trend among women to embrace their body hair, particularly underarm hair, challenging societal norms and the concept of "shame" associated with it [3][16][25]. Group 1: Societal Perception and Personal Experience - A significant percentage of women (78%) prefer not to shave their underarm hair due to potential discomfort and health risks [4]. - Personal narratives illustrate a shift in mindset, where women like Yami and Tongwen begin to question the societal standards of beauty that dictate the removal of body hair [5][12]. - The article highlights the journey of women from conforming to societal expectations to embracing their natural selves, as seen in the experiences of different women across ages [13][29]. Group 2: Historical Context and Cultural Influence - The concept of "underarm hair shame" is traced back to marketing strategies from the early 20th century, particularly by companies like Gillette, which promoted hair removal as a standard of beauty [17][21]. - The article notes that the perception of body hair has evolved, with cultural influences leading to a shift in beauty standards, particularly in Eastern cultures [21][25]. Group 3: Health and Biological Aspects - The article discusses the biological functions of underarm hair, such as protection and moisture regulation, which are often overlooked in the pursuit of beauty [23][24]. - It emphasizes that the removal of underarm hair can lead to various skin issues, including irritation and increased odor, challenging the notion that hair removal is inherently hygienic [24][25]. Group 4: Empowerment and Rebellion - The narrative showcases a growing empowerment among women, as they assert their right to choose whether or not to remove body hair, often in defiance of societal pressures [27][28]. - Women like Yami and Tongwen express their newfound freedom in choosing to embrace their natural appearance, rejecting external judgments [28][30].

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the growing trend among women to embrace their body hair, particularly underarm hair, challenging societal norms and the concept of "shame" associated with it [2][10][20]. Group 1: Societal Perception and Personal Experience - More women are questioning the necessity of shaving underarm hair, with 78% of respondents in a survey indicating they prefer not to shave due to potential discomfort and health risks [2][3]. - Personal stories illustrate the journey of women like Yami and Tongwen, who confront societal expectations and embrace their natural bodies, rejecting the notion of "underarm hair shame" [2][8][20]. - The article highlights the impact of external perceptions on women's choices, with many feeling pressured to conform to beauty standards [4][10][23]. Group 2: Historical Context and Cultural Influence - The concept of "underarm hair shame" is traced back to marketing campaigns in the early 20th century, particularly by companies like Gillette, which promoted hair removal as a standard of beauty [10][11][14]. - The article notes that this cultural phenomenon is not inherent to Eastern women, as historical context shows that body hair was not a concern in earlier times [13][14]. - The influence of Western beauty standards has led to a widespread acceptance of hair removal practices among women in various cultures [14][16]. Group 3: Health and Biological Considerations - The article discusses the biological functions of underarm hair, including protection and moisture regulation, suggesting that removing it can lead to health issues such as increased odor and skin irritation [15][16]. - It emphasizes that the removal of underarm hair can disrupt natural processes, leading to complications like folliculitis and increased hair growth [15][16]. Group 4: Empowerment and Rebellion - Women are increasingly asserting their right to choose whether or not to remove body hair, with many expressing a sense of empowerment in rejecting societal norms [18][20]. - The article features examples of women like Alshu, who undergo personal transformations and challenge gender norms, reflecting a broader movement towards self-acceptance and autonomy [21][23]. - The narrative illustrates a shift in mindset, where women prioritize their comfort and preferences over societal expectations, marking a significant cultural change [20][24].

Group 1 - The film "酱园弄·悬案" is considered a standard and qualified movie, ranking among the top domestic films of the year despite mixed reviews [1][5][24] - Directed by Chen Kexin, the film features a star-studded cast including Zhang Ziyi, Yi Yangqianxi, Zhao Liying, and Yang Mi, marking Chen's first release after establishing his pan-Asian production company [2][5] - The film's narrative has been criticized for being lengthy and disjointed, leading to its division into two parts, with the first part titled "酱园弄·悬案" running for 96 minutes [2][5][24] Group 2 - The character of Zhan Zhoushi, played by Zhang Ziyi, is depicted as a strong female lead, representing the struggles of women in a patriarchal society [6][8][30] - The film explores themes of female awakening and empowerment, showcasing Zhan Zhoushi's transformation from a victim to a figure of resistance against male oppression [25][29][30] - The interactions between Zhan Zhoushi and other female characters, such as Wang Xumei and Su Qing, highlight the importance of female solidarity and support in overcoming societal challenges [18][21][23]

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