以下文章来源于波波夫同学 ，作者波波夫 波波夫同学 . 关注被技术异化的世界 本文来自微信公众号： 波波夫同学 ，作者：波波夫，题图来自：视觉中国 婚姻和商业一样，魔鬼总是在细节之中。 最初，有机敏的网友发现田朴珺的微博删除了大量与王石的合影。之后，在元旦祝福中，田朴珺发布 的是个人单人海报，且互动中未见王石身影，与往年两人高调秀恩爱的风格形成反差。 又有人发现2025年下半年两人出席活动时"坐位隔开、全程零交流"的视频。随着猜测升级，网上开 始出现各种真假难辨的消息：有传闻称两人已在商业领域完成资产清算和切割，仅剩极少数关联公 司。甚至流传出一份所谓的"离婚声明"。 2012年田朴珺在微博晒出一锅王石做的"笨笨红烧肉"，曝光了这段颇受争议的忘年恋情。2018年， 王石在颁奖典礼上以"谢谢我的妻子田朴珺"正式公开身份。2024年初，王石曾公开承认两人育有一 个女儿，2025年两人也曾合体发布带娃视频。 源于社交平台的种种细节猜测，最终由田朴珺本人以"假的"二字直接辟谣。 假作真时真亦假，无为有时有还无。在2026年的今天，中国社会对多元生活方式的包容度比十多年 前已经大幅提高，而且网络对于这段恋情、特别是对王 ...

Group 1 - The core idea emphasizes the importance of both scientific metrics and humanistic care in the sustainable development of cities, particularly through discussions on "women-friendly cities" and the "Shanghai Index" during the 2025 World Cities Day Global Conference on Urban Sustainable Development [1][3] Group 2 - Significant progress has been made in women's friendliness in Chinese cities over the past 20 years, with improvements in public lighting and the establishment of family care rooms reflecting the city's attention to women's and family needs [3][5] - However, there are still "invisible inconveniences" in urban development, such as the replacement of small shops by large supermarkets, which diminishes women's shopping convenience and community engagement [3][5] - The concept of "independent women" is discussed, highlighting that true independence involves "multiple dependencies," allowing women to balance family responsibilities and social value [5] Group 3 - The "Shanghai Index," developed by the Shanghai government and UN-Habitat, serves as a measurement tool for global urban sustainable development, focusing on four core values: safety, inclusivity, resilience, and sustainability [7][9] - The index consists of a foundational database with 47 indicators, designed for self-comparison and improvement rather than competition among cities [7][9] - It aims to support scientific public policy decisions in urban renewal, using specific indicators like the "urban night lighting index" to track vitality changes in built-up areas [7][9] Group 4 - The "Shanghai Index" is tailored for different city types, allowing for differentiated application scenarios, akin to various events in the Olympics with their own scoring standards [9] - Future development of the index is envisioned to complement other technical tools, guiding global cities towards greener, fairer, and smarter development [9]

Core Insights - The conference on sustainable urban development highlighted significant changes in public space development, particularly in addressing women's unique experiences and challenges in urban environments [2] - Improvements in urban safety, public health facilities, and family-friendly spaces were emphasized, showcasing Shanghai's advancements in these areas [2][3] - The discussion on women's consumption patterns pointed out the need for more small retail spaces rather than large shopping malls, reflecting women's preferences and daily convenience [3] - The concept of independent women was discussed, stressing the importance of balance between work and family values, and the need to avoid extreme interpretations of independence [3] - The importance of digital literacy for both genders in the digital age was underscored, with a call for more discussions on gender equality and urban development in the context of technological advancements [4] Urban Development Changes - Significant improvements in urban safety, particularly through enhanced lighting systems, have contributed to a greater sense of security for women in Shanghai [2] - The increase in the ratio and space of women's restrooms, along with the development of mother-baby rooms, reflects a shift towards more inclusive urban planning [2] - The transformation of public spaces to be more family-friendly, allowing for shared parenting experiences, marks a notable change in urban design [2] Consumer Behavior Insights - The preference for smaller, accessible retail options over large shopping malls was highlighted as a key consideration for women's shopping experiences [3] - The role of women in household shopping responsibilities was acknowledged, emphasizing the need for convenient access to essential goods [3] Digital Age Considerations - The necessity for enhanced digital literacy for both genders was emphasized as crucial for social participation and adaptation to the digital era [4] - The potential for Shanghai to lead in gender equality and women's empowerment in the context of urban development and technological change was discussed [4]

Core Viewpoint - Alex, a feminist and mother, openly discusses gender and motherhood, advocating for women's rights and the importance of recognizing the challenges of motherhood [2][3][49]. Group 1: Personal Journey and Motherhood - Alex shares her transformation from a career-focused individual to a dedicated mother, documenting her experiences on social media [3][15]. - She emphasizes the effort required for women to become mothers and the importance of maintaining independence while raising children [3][49]. - The discussions around motherhood have evolved, with increasing awareness of the trauma and challenges women face in relation to childbirth and parenting [3][49]. Group 2: Gender Identity and Parenting - Alex encourages her son, Cai Juan, to express himself freely, including wearing skirts, challenging traditional gender norms [4][6]. - She observes that despite her efforts to promote a non-binary understanding of gender, societal influences can lead children to conform to traditional gender roles [11][12]. - Alex reflects on the complexities of gender identity development in children, noting that individual differences play a significant role [10][12]. Group 3: Family Dynamics and Support - Alex describes her partnership with her husband, who actively participates in parenting, allowing her to maintain her identity while managing family responsibilities [52][54]. - The couple navigates parenting challenges together, often leading to disagreements, but they have established a system that respects each other's methods [54][55]. - Alex acknowledges the emotional toll of parenting, especially with the arrival of a second child, and the need for patience and understanding in family dynamics [21][23][55]. Group 4: Balancing Personal Life and Motherhood - Alex manages her time efficiently, balancing work, exercise, and family life, demonstrating the challenges of being a working mother [15][26]. - She reflects on the changes in her identity and lifestyle since becoming a mother, finding joy in her current life despite the challenges [55][56]. - The narrative highlights the importance of self-care and maintaining personal interests while fulfilling the role of a mother [51][56].