洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 云谷师 来源： 日行一善共修平台 （ID: RXYSGXPT） 我执为根，生诸烦恼。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播云湾 朗读音频 《菜根谭》有言："才就筏便思舍筏，方是无事道人；若骑驴又复觅驴，终为不了禅师。" 登上竹筏就能想到上岸后要舍弃，是不为外物羁绊的真人；如果已骑在驴上却还在另外找驴， 那只是没能悟道的和尚。 人生在世，有舍才有得，正所谓小舍小得，大舍大得，不舍不得。 懂得取舍，才是人生最高的境界。 舍欲望，方能安然 佛经上说：少欲无为，身心自在。 大道至简，欲望太多，拥有太多，带来的并不是幸福，而是焦虑和迷失，伤心又伤身。 01 心学大家王阳明，曾因得罪宦官刘谨被贬往贵州龙场。当时的龙场，人烟稀少、遍布荆棘，瘴 气环绕，蚊虫不绝。 跟他一起去的随从，来到这不毛之地，住在毒虫肆虐的山洞里，衣食无着，终日抑郁不欢，相 继病倒，唯有他一个人安然无恙。 王阳明后来说："龙场两年，我也被瘴毒侵害，之所以安然无恙，是因 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the unique combination of fig and walnut as a nutritious and delicious snack, highlighting its growing popularity in the consumer market and the meticulous production process that ensures high quality [11][38][43]. Group 1: Product Introduction - The product "Canglai Fig with Walnut" is introduced as a special snack that combines the soft texture of figs with the crunchiness of walnuts, offering a rich and harmonious taste experience [23][30]. - The figs are sourced from Iran, known for their high sweetness and quality, while the walnuts are selected from Xinjiang, China, recognized for their superior flavor [34][59]. Group 2: Production Process - The production process involves strict selection of raw materials, ensuring only the best figs and walnuts are used [56][62]. - Each fig is carefully cut to insert the walnut, followed by a low-temperature drying process that preserves the nutritional value and enhances flavor [68][72]. - Quality control is emphasized, with only well-formed and flavorful products being sold to consumers [75]. Group 3: Nutritional Benefits - The fig and walnut combination is rich in dietary fiber, antioxidants, and healthy fats, making it a nutritious choice for various consumers, including those with dietary restrictions [84][90]. - The product is packaged in individual servings, promoting convenience and hygiene, making it suitable for gifting and personal consumption [99][101]. Group 4: Market Performance - The product has seen rapid sales, with 5000 units selling out within a week of launch, indicating strong consumer demand [46]. - The pricing strategy is competitive, with promotional offers making it accessible to a wider audience [103].

作者： 洞见·Seven 你生过的气，咽下的委屈，身体都会记住。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播晏娇 朗读音频 医学博士罗大伦讲过这样一个故事： 他的一位患者M女士，嫁给了一个脾气暴躁、喜欢挑剔的男人。 隔三岔五，丈夫就会为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事，跟她吵得昏天黑地。 洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 M女士满腹委屈，痛苦不已。 但为了维持家庭和谐，她一直忍气吞声，将所有的不满和痛苦深埋心底。 然而，几年后，她变得极度消瘦，面色苍白，整个人都憔悴了许多。 去医院一检查，才发现竟然是肾癌晚期。 对于这位女士的遭遇，罗大伦很是同情，他告诉M女士： 身体90%的病痛，都和被刻意压制的情绪相关。 很多大病包括癌症，都是长时间的情感压抑导致的，你的病，就是被自己活生生 憋出来的。 《人民日报》曾刊文指出，癌症偏爱C型性格。 所谓C型性格，就是指那些习惯压抑情绪、逆来顺受、爱生闷气的人群。 今年8月18日，来自江西的抗癌博主杨美美因肺癌离世，年仅42岁。 2022年1月，因一场 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the significant benefits of going to bed one hour earlier, including weight loss, improved mood, better heart health, and enhanced skin appearance, supported by scientific research. Group 1: Health Benefits of Early Sleep - Sleeping one hour earlier can lead to weight loss, as studies indicate that insufficient sleep increases the risk of obesity, and an additional hour of sleep can equate to consuming fewer calories [3][6]. - Early sleep contributes to improved mental health by reducing stress hormone levels and increasing happiness hormone levels, leading to a more positive mood [6][8]. - Heart health is enhanced by sleeping earlier, as the period between 10 PM and 11 PM is considered crucial for heart health, reducing various cardiovascular risks [8][10]. - Skin appearance improves with earlier sleep, as the hours between 10 PM and 2 AM are vital for skin repair and regeneration, making early sleep more effective than skincare products [10][12]. Group 2: Importance of Quality Bedding - The article highlights the importance of investing in quality bedding, as individuals spend a significant portion of their lives sleeping [12][14]. - Various high-quality bedding products are promoted, including silk comforters and cotton duvet covers, which are designed for comfort and health benefits [14][23]. - The article mentions a special event where consumers can purchase these bedding products at discounted prices, emphasizing the quality and celebrity endorsements of the products [16][45].

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 夫妻同心，家之肥也。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播云湾朗读音频 01 楼下有两家早餐店，我每次上班前都会挑一家就餐。 这两家店，都是夫妻经营，手艺也差不多。 可没过半年，其中一家店突然倒闭。 原来这家店的夫妻经常吵架拌嘴，每次都是为了些鸡毛蒜皮的小事闹矛盾。 不是气对方少算了钱，就是嫌对方动作慢。 作者： 洞见jinian 有时候，吵得凶了，还会停业一两天。 可时间一长，连带着生意也越做越差，最后只能无奈关店。 而另一家店的夫妻，每天都是笑眯眯的，从未见他们红过脸。 一个人在后厨忙碌，另一个人就在外面卖力吆喝。 男主人要是想出了新点子，女主人从不会泼冷水，而是选择支持。 没过两年，他们这家店就越做越红火，还在合肥开了好几家分店。 所谓夫妻同心，家之肥也。 很多夫妻都习惯将婚姻的不幸归咎于贫穷，将生活的困顿归罪于命运。 却不知，一个家庭蒸蒸日上的秘诀，从不是靠运气，而是夫妻同心，互相扶持。 夫妻之间互相贬低，心都不在一条线上， ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价 值、有意思的延伸阅读。 知道自己是谁，自己想成为谁，比什么都重要。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播安东尼朗读音频 前几年，杨天真宣布自己不再做经纪人，转头开始做自己的服装品牌。 那会儿，她每天都在直播，拍短视频。 网上对此骂声一片，有人嘲讽她就是想红，也有人质疑她是在经纪人圈子里混不下去了。 杨天真却毫不在意，而是更加认真地选品，卖力直播。 直到她成功将大码女装推向了时尚界，打破了大众的身材焦虑。 她说："人们在意别人的看法，不是因为太闲，就是内心虚弱，当你有更重要的事情要去做时，你是不会在意这些评价的。" 一个人最大的弱点，莫过于把别人放在第一位。 而真正内心强大的人，总会一如既往地置顶自己。 01 心理学上有个"巴纳姆效应"。 意思是说，我们常会受到周围信息的干扰而迷失自我，并把他人的言行作为自己行动的参照。 作者： 洞见jinian 有没有发现，你大多烦恼忧愁，都是因为太在意外界的评价。 过于看重别人，只会迷失自己的人生方向，陷入无止境的内耗。 ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 六六 来源： 新东方家庭教育 （ID: xdfjtjy） 先爱自己，再爱孩子。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播亚楠朗读音频 前几天，跟一位朋友吃饭聊天。 她跟我抱怨说，自从儿子到了青春期，变得特别的不好相处。 以前两人无话不说，结果现在让他往东，他偏偏往西； 有时我们费心张罗一桌好菜，塞给孩子辛苦攒的钱，换来的可能只是一时的笑脸，转眼就散 了。 经过研究，我发现与孩子最好的相处方式，其实是遵循以下四个黄金法则。 尊重法则：少点插手，多点理解。 博主 @大连老湿王博文 有一个认识多年的博士朋友。 这位博士的父母对他就是高标准高要求，从拿筷子的距离，到买衣服的款式，全部都要按照父 母的规定、喜好来。 上学时，他妈妈会撕他的课外书，翻他的抽屉，看他写的日记，进他的房间从来不敲门。 她苦口婆心地跟他讲道理，他油盐不进，还说她太啰嗦。 两人经常一整天下来，除了喊他上学吃饭睡觉，说不了几句话。 那天，她费尽心思想跟儿子搞好关系，还 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the negative impact of incorrect sleeping positions on spinal health and introduces an ergonomic side-sleeping pillow designed to alleviate these issues while providing comfort [4][5][12]. Group 1: Impact of Sleeping Position - Incorrect sleeping positions, particularly side sleeping, can lead to spinal misalignment and discomfort, potentially resulting in chronic pain and conditions like scoliosis [8][15]. - Many individuals experience discomfort such as numbness in arms or back pain due to improper sleeping postures [10][13]. Group 2: Ergonomic Pillow Solution - The article introduces a specially designed ergonomic side-sleeping pillow that supports the body in a natural position, reducing strain on the spine and improving sleep quality [20][33]. - This pillow features a unique design that provides three-point support for the arms, hips, and knees, ensuring proper alignment and comfort during sleep [35][72]. Group 3: Material and Design Features - The pillow is filled with 3D spiral fibers that maintain shape and support, preventing flattening over time, unlike traditional pillows [96][104]. - It is made from breathable, moisture-wicking materials, ensuring comfort and hygiene, with a removable and washable cover for easy maintenance [120][137]. Group 4: Versatility and Value - The ergonomic pillow is not only suitable for side sleeping but can also be used as a backrest or support on sofas, making it a versatile addition to home furnishings [146][151]. - The product is positioned as a cost-effective alternative to higher-priced ergonomic pillows available in the market, currently offered at a promotional price of 69.9 yuan [162].

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 成年人社交的"交"，不是指交情，而是指交换。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播晏娇朗读音频 心理咨询师 @黄仕明 讲过一段扎心的故事。 他回老家会给妈妈带很多东西，而临走时，妈妈也会将粽子、蔬菜用塑料袋打包塞到他车上。 而他总皱着眉，嫌弃地挑拣："广州什么买不到，我根本不需要这些，这个不要，那个也不要。" 而妈妈听到后，总露出尴尬失望的表情。 在这一刻他看到妈妈是那样的欣喜愉悦。 他这才意识到，原来接受对别人而言如此重要，自己无意间的拒绝，亦是一种伤害。 与人相处中，我们总看重付出，却往往忽略别人的回馈。不知唯有互相滋养，才能筑牢情感的桥梁。 适时接受对方的好意，亦是一种经营关系的智慧。 作者：洞见·弓桥 只付出不接受会把别人推走。 埃里克·伯恩在书籍《人生脚本：说完你好，说什么？》中讲过一则案例。 玛格达女士是个热心肠的人，对朋友更是有求必应，却偏偏和朋友闹掰了。 朋友生日到了，她会提前预订餐厅，又准备价值千元的礼物。 可自己 ...

Core Insights - The article emphasizes the importance of timely decision-making in both investments and personal life, advocating for the principles of taking profits and cutting losses [3][18][22] Group 1: Investment Principles - The concept of "taking profits" is highlighted as a strategy to avoid greed and unnecessary losses [3] - "Cutting losses" is presented as a necessary action when recognizing a wrong direction or investment, encouraging individuals to stop further losses [3][22] - The article draws parallels between investment strategies and life choices, suggesting that both require a clear understanding of when to stop [18][22] Group 2: Personal Relationships - The narrative includes examples of individuals who have stayed in unfulfilling relationships due to emotional attachment and fear of loss, illustrating the need for timely exits [6][10][18] - A specific case of a woman enduring a toxic marriage is discussed, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when to leave for personal well-being [10][16] - The article suggests that many people are trapped by "sunk costs," which prevent them from making rational decisions about their relationships [16][18] Group 3: Business Decisions - A cautionary tale about a man who invested in a franchise without proper research is shared, highlighting the consequences of ignoring warning signs and failing to cut losses [20][21] - The narrative stresses that many individuals continue to invest in failing ventures due to emotional attachment to their initial investments, leading to greater losses [21][22] - The article concludes that recognizing when to stop is crucial for preserving resources and enabling future opportunities [22][23]