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Group 1 - The core concept of the article revolves around the importance of "security" in romantic relationships, highlighting that it is a fundamental need for individuals to feel understood, supported, loved, and accepted [4][5][19] - The article discusses the different attachment styles formed in childhood, which influence how individuals experience and express security in their adult relationships [10][11][14] - It identifies four types of attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized, explaining how each type reacts differently in romantic situations [10][14][18] Group 2 - The article emphasizes the necessity for both partners to cultivate security in their relationship rather than placing the responsibility solely on one individual [19][35] - It suggests that understanding one's own attachment style and common coping mechanisms is crucial for improving romantic relationships [20][21] - The article provides practical methods for partners to communicate effectively and address misunderstandings, which can help break negative cycles in their interactions [33][34]