洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 作者：知白 来源：日行一善共修平台 （ID: RXYSGXPT） 放下该放下的，才能抓住该抓住的。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播素年锦时朗读音频 有句话说："背着包袱赶路的人，永远走不快。" 人活着，摔跟头不要紧，摔了跟头还背着一身泥往前走就是糊涂。 见过太多人，把挫败当包袱捆在背上，把遗憾当刺别在心头。 走着走着，路没走多远，人先被这些"垃圾" 压弯了腰。 人生最不值当的事，就是拎着垃圾赶路。 该扔的扔，该忘的忘，心轻了，才能看见远处的风景。 01 在挫败中，放下内耗 老话说："经一番挫折，长一番见识。" 人总是失败不可怕，可怕的是失败后反复踏入同样的泥潭。 不断自我怀疑、反复咀嚼痛苦，最终把自己困在原地。 顺境也好，逆境也好，人生就是一场面对种种挫败无休无止的战斗。 挫败是用来让你知道：这条路走不通，就换条路走。 你一直站在原地，就会活成一个失败者。 作家史铁生，在正值青春年华的21岁那年，因一场突如其来的疾病导致双腿瘫痪 ...

Core Viewpoint - The ability to recognize and understand people is a crucial skill that influences success and failure in life [6][10][24] Group 1: Importance of Recognizing People - Recognizing the right people can lead to significant achievements, while misjudging can result in failures [12][21] - Historical figures, such as Han Xin, exemplify the importance of being able to identify and utilize talent effectively [15][20] - The ability to gather talented individuals is essential for accomplishing great things [14][22] Group 2: Avoiding Risks through Recognition - Many life disasters stem from misjudging the character of those around us [28][44] - The story of Li Chang illustrates how misplaced trust can lead to severe consequences [39][43] - Recognizing people's true intentions requires looking beyond superficial appearances [46][49] Group 3: Methods for Effective Recognition - Observing behavior in various situations can reveal a person's true character [54][62] - The example of Chunyu Kun shows the effectiveness of careful observation and strategic action in recognizing reliable individuals [60][62] - Long-term interactions and attention to detail are key to understanding a person's true nature [63][65]

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the rising popularity of "pseudo-body fragrances," which are subtle scents that mimic natural body odors, appealing to the Chinese aesthetic of understated fragrance [13][14][16]. Group 1: Pseudo-Body Fragrance Characteristics - Pseudo-body fragrances are described as alluring yet discreet, suitable for various occasions such as work, dates, and parties [20][22]. - The article highlights the appeal of these fragrances in enhancing personal charm and first impressions [9][11]. - Chloe's "Nude" is mentioned as a high-end example of pseudo-body fragrance, characterized by a blend of lychee, rose, amber, and cedar [30][36]. Group 2: Affordable Alternatives - WARMKISS's "Pure Desire Ribbon" is presented as a cost-effective alternative to Chloe's fragrance, priced at 69 yuan for two bottles, offering a similar scent profile [39][64]. - The article notes that WARMKISS fragrances are produced by an experienced factory, ensuring quality comparable to high-end brands [89][94]. - The fragrances are praised for their longevity, with lingering scents even after several hours [55][59]. Group 3: Additional Fragrance Options - Another fragrance from WARMKISS, "Skin Desire," is highlighted for its soft, clean scent, suitable for professional settings [47][116]. - The article discusses the importance of scent in social interactions, suggesting that a pleasant fragrance can enhance personal and professional relationships [154][155]. Group 4: Packaging and Design - The packaging of WARMKISS fragrances is noted for its aesthetic appeal, featuring a wave pattern design that adds a touch of elegance [126][130]. - The use of aluminum spray heads is mentioned, providing a fine mist that is gentle on the skin [132][135]. Group 5: Application Tips - The article provides tips on how to apply fragrances for maximum effect, such as spraying on pulse points and clothing to enhance scent longevity [138][141]. - It suggests that using fragrance in conjunction with moisturizing products can improve scent retention [144][148].

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 作者：瑾山月 来源：帆书樊登讲书 （ID: readingclub_btfx） 你永远无法做好准备。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播云湾朗读音频 前几天，看了个报道。 北京体育大学数据中心发布，最近两年，中国马拉松参赛人数近千万。 其中，企业高管占比17%。 我就纳闷，这些大佬每天忙个不停，哪有时间运动。 但细细想来，好像真有这么回事。 就拿我的社交圈来说，但凡接触过的大领导、大老板，都有健身的习惯。 平常看他们在社交分享，很少发布工作信息，反而是些运动日志。 晨起跑步10公里、健身房撸铁俩小时、公园打球一上午…… 果然，本事大的人都格外注重运动。 《半山文集》中说：运动的好处，在于能让人始终保持身心合一，它会用积极的能量，来统一自我。 大佬爱运动，背后暗藏的逻辑，不止打发时间那么简单。 如果咱们也"跟风"试试，生活也许会很不一样。 01 越是大佬越爱运动，他们这套逻辑绝了。 有没有发现，大佬和普通人有个明显区别—— 精力特别旺 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of letting go of past relationships and events to embrace new opportunities and positive changes in life [4][22][50] Group 1: Avoiding Old Relationships - The story of actress Ni Hongjie illustrates how detaching from a toxic relationship allowed her to focus on her career and achieve recognition [10][15] - The narrative of the character Rose from the drama "The Story of Roses" highlights the necessity of moving on from past relationships to find personal fulfillment and success [19][20] - The article suggests that clinging to harmful past connections can hinder personal growth and attract misfortune [21][22] Group 2: Letting Go of Past Events - The example of Scarlett from the novel "Gone with the Wind" demonstrates that holding onto past grievances can prevent one from moving forward and achieving success [25][26] - The experiences of writer San Mao reveal that overcoming past humiliations and embracing new experiences can lead to personal healing and creative success [30][31] - The article stresses the importance of recognizing when to move on from past events to avoid being burdened by them [32][34] Group 3: Embracing New Beginnings - The stories of media personality Li Xiaoyi and novelist Agatha Christie illustrate that letting go of the past can lead to new achievements and a more fulfilling life [38][50] - The article concludes that prioritizing self-love and focusing on the present can open doors to new opportunities and happiness [49][50]

无船难过河，浪大水流湍，彼岸是终点。 人活一世，不过是一场修行，需要把硌人的脾气磨成一团和气，放进生活的炉子里，炼就一份 大气。 01 洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 霞光满天 来源： 国学生活 （ID: gxsh789） 欲成大器，必养大气。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播周周朗读音频 人生恰如一条河，和气是船，脾气是浪，大气是岸。 明代官员杨翥（zhu），一生践行"睦乃四邻"。 邻居骂"杨家人偷了鸡"，他说："随他，此处不只我们一家姓杨。" 待人添和气 和气致祥，乖气致戾。 和气能够带来好运气，不和则会招致祸患。 和气，更是一种人生智慧，它彰显着一个人的宽厚与仁慈。 邻居将积水排到杨家院子，他说："无妨，下雨时候少，晴天时候多。 更让人称道的，是卖驴一事。 杨翥喜欢以驴代步，一天深夜，杨翥被驴叫声惊醒。 烦躁中，他想到：隔壁的婴儿，被惊吓后岂非更难受？ 第二天，他再三询问。 邻居说："自出生起就深受其扰，寝食难安。" 杨翥不断道歉，回家后立即卖了驴 ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 洞见jinian 安家两字曰让与忍，败家两字曰暴与凶。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播一凡朗读音频 直到后来，极度压抑的他决定研修心理学，以此来疗愈童年的创伤。 最后，他终于发现："好的家庭，不在住多大房，有多少钱，而在健康的关系上。" 说实话，在所有家庭模式中，独裁主义家庭关系最为糟糕。 在这种家庭中，总有个唯我独尊的人，在家独断专行，喜欢教育和改造家人。 家庭关系专家胡慎之，曾谈起自己的父母。 从小到大，父亲就像个独裁家，总是说一不二。 而母亲一直唯唯诺诺，从不敢违抗父亲的命令。 自小习惯逆来顺受的他，逐渐养成了自卑敏感的性格。 这类人，往往就是毁掉一个家庭最大的毒瘤。 过了半天，丈夫和儿子都没有回应，只有女儿过来摆好了餐盘。 01 作家卡尔·惠特克在书中写过一个故事。 卡罗琳在家里十分霸道，所有人都要听她安排。 有次她准备晚餐，喊家人过来帮忙。 她非但没有夸奖女儿，反而指责她：你就做了这么点事，可真懒。 女儿忍不住 ...

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Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of emotional stability and a steady mindset in achieving personal and professional success, suggesting that one's internal state significantly influences external outcomes [4][46]. Emotional Stability - Emotional stability is highlighted as a crucial quality for individuals, with the analogy that stable emotions are like a gentle stream nourishing everything, while unstable emotions are like raging waves that can destroy [6][7]. - The article references a 75-year study tracking 724 individuals, concluding that emotional well-being, rather than wealth or fame, is a key factor in achieving success [15][16]. - It stresses that controlling one's emotions is a form of self-cultivation, and that being a master of one's emotions leads to a smoother life journey [17][14]. Steadiness in Action - The text argues that the world lacks reliable and steady individuals, and that a person's ability to accomplish significant tasks often depends on their reliability [20][21]. - It cites historical figures like Zeng Guofan, who prioritized stability in his actions, leading to his success and high-ranking position [24][26]. - The article suggests that the most capable individuals are those who are methodical and cautious, rather than impulsive [28][29]. Inner Calmness - The article discusses the concept that one's heart governs life, and that maintaining a calm mindset amidst challenges is essential for navigating life's ups and downs [32][34]. - It references Wang Yangming, who maintained composure and continued his studies even during adversity, ultimately leading to his philosophical contributions [40][41]. - The notion that to conquer external challenges, one must first conquer their inner self is emphasized, suggesting that a clear mind leads to smoother endeavors [42][44].