洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者： 枫子 来源： 男孩派 （ID: boy666dj） 童年得到的爱，是长大后的光。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播亚楠朗读音频 心理学家阿德勒说过：幸福的人用童年治愈一生，不幸的人用一生治愈童年。 那怎样的童年才是幸福的呢？是让孩子衣食无忧？是助力孩子取得好成绩？还是父母的关爱与 陪伴？ 面对我的疑问，DeepSeek通过大数据，总结出了儿童成长中最幸福的10个瞬间。 这些瞬间，就藏在那些被我们忽略的琐事里，看似平常，却像暗夜中的点点星光，汇聚成了滋 养孩子一生的成长能量。 01 被父母无目的地拥抱 教育家孙云晓说过： "一个孩子一天需要4次拥抱，才能存活；8次拥抱才能坚持；16次拥抱才能成长。而一个没有 被父母拥抱过的孩子，心理上多少会有问题。" 每一次拥抱，都是父母在向孩子输送能量。 它无需理由——不必孩子"表现好""考了满分""摔疼了"或"需要安慰"才发生。 它只是"因为你是你，而我爱你"。 每天，出门前，回家后， ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 白眼狼多了，再炽热的心也会一点点变凉。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播楚翘朗读音频 前段时间，上海一家面馆的监控视频火了。 这家面馆，是一家"爱心面馆"。 它的门前贴着一张温暖人心的海报：为了帮助一些在上海遇到困难的人，面馆可以提供一碗免费的重庆小面。 老板本想在力所能及的范围里，帮助一下别人。 可万万没想到，这份善意竟成了某些人肆意索取的"自助餐券"。 那天，一个打扮体面的男子推门而入。 笔挺的西装、精致的领带，脖颈上还架着一副高档耳机，怎么看都与"落魄"毫不相干。 但他大喇喇往桌前一坐，语气带着命令式的傲慢："老板，煮碗免费的。" 老板望着他这副派头，心里直犯嘀咕，但想着或许对方有难言之隐，还是转身煮面去了。 作者：洞见·时筠 第一碗面下肚，男子抹了抹嘴，直接喊："再加一碗！" 老板眉头微皱，却还是默默端上。 谁知，男子吃完又叫："再来一碗！" 当老板小心翼翼提醒"免费面别浪费"时，他仰头大笑："哈哈哈，浪费是不可能的。" ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 你有没有发现，身边有一些人仍旧保留着动物本能？ 见你的日子过得好，他们心里就不痛快，非得把你拉下水； 你的真心付出，他们从不会感恩，反而会变本加厉地索取； 你随口几句话，就惹得他们大发脾气，到最后给自己招来了祸害。 作者： 洞见jinian 北大中文系的钱理群教授，将这类人称为"动物性的人"。 他们被自己的生存本能牵着走，任性妄为。 人，是经不起考验的。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播一凡朗读音频 一旦激发起他们身上的动物性，只会给自己带来源源不断的伤害。 跟这类人打交道，你得时刻提防，千万不要激发他们的动物性。 跟动物性强的人相处，不炫耀。 网友 @亦宵 年轻时，靠大棚种菜，赚了不少钱，是村里有头有脸的人物。 有次，他跟人喝酒。 酒劲上来后，他忍不住吹嘘自己一年赚了几十万。 不承想，他的这番炫耀，竟激发别人的嫉妒。 没多久，他的大棚就被人恶意喷了农药，搞得一团糟。 不仅一分钱没赚，还倒赔了几十万进去。 亦宵肯吃苦，也聪明，几 ...

Core Insights - The article emphasizes the importance of patience and long-term commitment in achieving success, highlighting that immediate results are often unrealistic and can lead to anxiety and burnout [7][10][21]. Group 1: The Nature of Anxiety and Impatience - Many individuals experience anxiety due to a desire for quick results, which can lead to a cycle of frustration and disappointment [7][8]. - The story of a college student who rushed into various business ventures without proper research illustrates the pitfalls of seeking immediate success [11][18]. - Psychological concepts, such as the "anxiety curve," suggest that gradual effort leads to increased efficiency, while impatience can hinder progress [19][20]. Group 2: Examples of Long-Term Commitment - The narrative of a well-known host, 康辉, showcases how perseverance over many years eventually led to success, despite initial setbacks [24][30]. - Another example is the story of a courier, 窦立国, who built his business through consistent effort and attention to detail, ultimately leading to recognition and success [37][49]. - The article concludes that true mastery and success come from sustained effort and the willingness to endure challenges over time [50][51].

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of maintaining a healthy spleen and stomach, especially during the summer months when people are more prone to digestive issues due to heat and humidity. It introduces a product, "Li Shizhen Fuling Qianshi Eight Treasure Cake," as a beneficial food supplement for improving digestive health and overall well-being [6][8][39]. Group 1: Health Issues and Symptoms - Summer is a season where people often neglect the effects of humidity and cold on their health, leading to weakened digestive systems [6][8]. - Common symptoms of spleen and stomach weakness include bloating, loss of appetite, fatigue, and poor complexion [10][16]. - A self-test is provided to identify potential digestive issues, with symptoms such as acid reflux, morning nausea, and abdominal pain being highlighted [18][19][25]. Group 2: Dietary Recommendations - It is advised to avoid cold foods and drinks to protect the spleen and stomach during the summer [26]. - The article promotes the "Li Shizhen Fuling Qianshi Eight Treasure Cake" as a healthy dietary option that can help nourish the spleen and stomach [28][39]. - The cake is made from a blend of eight traditional ingredients known for their health benefits, including Fuling, Qianshi, and various nuts, which contribute to its nutritional value [37][41]. Group 3: Product Details and Benefits - The Eight Treasure Cake is based on a historical recipe and is designed to improve symptoms related to digestive weakness, such as bloating and poor appetite [63][89]. - The product is made from high-quality, carefully selected ingredients, ensuring both taste and health benefits [89][90]. - The cake is marketed as a convenient snack that can be consumed daily to support digestive health, making it suitable for busy individuals and families [112][120].

Core Viewpoint - The article reflects on the life and philosophy of Cai Lan, emphasizing his carefree attitude towards life and death, and the wisdom he shared through his interactions with the public [11][102]. Summary by Sections Life Philosophy - Cai Lan lived a life free from societal constraints, enjoying experiences and expressing his unique perspective on life [9][13]. - His approach to death was equally relaxed, preferring a simple farewell without elaborate ceremonies [10][11]. Wisdom and Insights - Over a decade, Cai Lan engaged with the public through social media, responding to over 100,000 inquiries, offering insights on various life challenges [18][19]. - He believed that life's difficulties are often temporary and that one should not be overly concerned with setbacks [25][27]. Handling Criticism and Relationships - Cai Lan advised that the best response to criticism is often to ignore it, highlighting the power of silence as a form of self-respect [31][35]. - He warned against entangling with the wrong people, suggesting that such relationships can lead to unnecessary suffering [39][41]. Life Choices and Actions - The article discusses the importance of making choices and taking action, emphasizing that success comes from effort rather than mere contemplation [70][72]. - It stresses that life is inherently challenging, and everyone faces their own struggles, urging individuals to focus on their own paths rather than comparing themselves to others [56][90]. Embracing Learning and Growth - Reading is presented as a vital tool for overcoming loneliness and gaining wisdom, with the idea that literature can provide answers to life's questions [62][66]. - The article concludes with a call to embrace life fully, regardless of its challenges, and to live authentically [108][101].

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 伴侣首先是人，最后才是爱人。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播一凡朗读音频 你有没有发现这样一个现象： 多年婚姻，明明曾经亲密无间的两个人，却常常因小事而大动肝火。 你唇枪舌剑，我也针锋相对，两者互不相让。 到最后，再亲密的关系，也会走向分崩离析的结局。 大多时候婚姻出了问题，其实都是卡在人性这一关。 毕竟，婚姻中，感情只是表象，人性才是真正的底色。 人心最是多变，人性最是难猜，哪怕是最亲密的关系，也不例外。 永远不要高估感情，看透了人性，你才能经营好婚姻。 作者：洞见jinian 人性慕强，好的婚姻需要强大自己。 邻居张姐自从生了女儿以后，就一直待在家里照顾孩子。 原以为她日子会过得轻松些，可每次见她都苦着张脸。 因为没有收入，她在家里十分卑微。 在家里，什么事都紧着丈夫来，对方稍有不高兴，她就要低三下四地赔罪。 丈夫却对她越来越不满意，每天都故意找茬跟她吵架。 如今，张姐整日以泪洗面，被这段婚姻折磨得痛苦不堪。 人性都是慕强 ...

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 看破世事难睁眼，阅尽人情暗点头。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播韩丹朗读音频 随着年纪增长，人是会改变的。譬如我，前些年总想事事拔尖，引人注目，结果搞得整个人疲 惫不堪。 如今过了不惑之年，才醒悟： 得失顺逆，输赢成败，不过是此一时，彼一时。可以认真参演，但是较真你就输了。 比起年轻时的莽撞冲动，我们更需要的是一份泰然处世的从容。 作者：洞见Moon 01 销声匿迹 浮躁，是这个时代的集体病症。 越是身处人群中，我们的内心就越是浑浊，心中的那份宁静也与自己渐行渐远。 当你内心安定了，你才能远离浮躁，把苦闷的日子过得丰盈，把懵懂的自己活得成熟。 前两天看到老戏骨游本昌的采访。 1985年，他因为饰演济公爆火，片约不断。 那段时间，他每天都暴露在聚光灯下，很多人都想来巴结他，很多媒体都来采访他。 但这光鲜亮丽的背后是无尽的空虚和烦闷。 于是他干脆息影隐退，做个与世无争的闲人。 此后近四十年时间，他几乎再也没有在公众面前露过面。 就 ...

Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of sun protection for skin health, particularly for middle-aged women, highlighting that true self-love begins with careful self-care, especially through effective skincare practices like sun protection [7][10]. Group 1: Importance of Sun Protection - The article stresses that neglecting sun protection can lead to skin damage such as sunspots and fine lines, making individuals appear older than their peers [10]. - It cites the People's Daily's repeated emphasis on the significance of sun protection during summer [7]. Group 2: Product Recommendations - The article recommends the national brand "Jiaoxia" for sun protection products, highlighting its UPF50+ certification that blocks over 99% of UV rays, which is superior to the national standard of UPF40+ [23]. - It mentions the convenience of Jiaxia products, such as a lightweight sun umbrella weighing only 250g, making it easy to carry [25]. - The cost-effectiveness of Jiaxia's sun protection clothing is noted, with an average daily cost of 0.4 yuan over three years, which is cheaper than using sunscreen [28]. Group 3: Product Features - Jiaxia's sun protection clothing features patented technology with UPF100+ protection, ensuring high sun protection effectiveness [34]. - The clothing is designed for breathability and comfort, incorporating 360° cooling technology to enhance wearability during hot weather [36]. - The article highlights the thoughtful design details of Jiaxia products, such as a 5cm sun hat brim and a 10cm neck guard for comprehensive sun protection [40]. Group 4: Additional Product Lines - The article introduces various Jiaxia products, including sun masks and umbrellas, emphasizing their high UV protection capabilities and user-friendly designs [65][70]. - It mentions the availability of cotton T-shirts and quick-dry sun protection pants, which are designed for comfort and practicality during summer [98][111].

洞见 （ DJ00123987 ） —— 不一样的观点，不一样的故事， 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注，我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者：洞见pumpkin 居住环境，对人有一种"传染"作用。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播云湾朗读音频 我只给了一个建议： 无论如何，往大城市挤一挤。 不是对小城市有任何地域偏见，而是去到更大的地方，能更大限度地拓展一个人认识世界的边 界。 加拿大设计师多夫·查尼被同行誉为"被上帝眷顾的设计师"。 自媒体作家九边有个观点我非常认同，他说： 每个人都有两次投胎的机会。 第一次是你出生的时候，这是生理意义上的投胎； 第二次是你选择居住地的时候，其重要程度，不亚于二次投胎。 出生在什么样的家庭，是我们无法把控的。 但是成人之后选择在哪里居住以及如何生活，也藏着足以改变我们命运的契机。 住的好的人，运气往往不会太差。 你居住的城市，就是你的眼界。 前段时间，刚高考完的亲戚家的小孩，向我寻求志愿填报的问题。 因为他总能提前预知潮流趋势，并在恰当的时机推出相应的设计。 但他本人对此却不以为意，"根本不用劳烦上帝，当我看到一种设计在10个地 ...