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看了百位680分以上的考生背景后我才明白:什么样的家庭,能养出学霸
洞见· 2025-07-01 10:12
洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 作者:yebo 来源:每晚一卷书 (ID: JYXZ89896) 教育不是控制与塑造,而是滋养与唤醒。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播安东尼朗读音频 最近这几天,高考成绩陆续放榜。 千千万万个学子,在十载寒窗苦读之后,终于品尝到了甘甜的果实。 河南开封有个叫代易瓒的姑娘考了724分,数学150分满分。 查分现场,父亲看到成绩后立马尖叫起来,与女儿紧紧相拥,这拥抱中,包含了多少辛酸、感慨、欣喜、激动…… 当我深入研究了上百位680分以上考生的家庭教育背景后,我发现: 辽宁一个叫林汐禹的男生,成绩刚刚公布,他的电话就被打爆了。 北京大学招生组的来电,都差点被他挂掉。 715分,是这个夏天最好的礼物,也是对自己最好的交代。 网友在对这些"天之骄子"表达祝贺的同时,也免不了由衷地感叹,这样优秀的孩子到底是怎么培养出来的? 能养出学霸的,往往来自这5种家庭。 今年,来自沈阳东北育才学校的一对龙凤胎兄妹火了。 哥哥李和轩与妹妹李和芮,各自 ...
普通人变强的第一步:丢掉羞耻心
洞见· 2025-07-01 10:12
洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 真正的狠人,都在过不要脸的生活。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播素年锦时朗读音频 心理学中有个词叫"焦点效益"。 是说人很容易太看重自己,从而高估别人对自己的关注。 因为过于在意别人对自己的评价,怕尴尬、怕丢脸,以至于不敢尝试新事物,从而错过很多成 长的机会。 作者: 洞见muye 罗翔教授也说:你害怕抛头露面,害怕出丑丢人,害怕承担责任,实际上你就是害怕成功,你 害怕成功,怎么可能成功? 普通人变强的第一步,就是学会淡化自我意识,丢掉羞耻心,不要太在乎外界的评价。 生活中的你,是不是也是如此: 因为害怕出错,拒绝了工作上的新挑战;因为担心做不好,不敢进入新的领域;因为觉得可能 会搞砸,而怯于迈出第一步… 的确,你完美地规避了任何一个可能会让你丢脸、犯错的风险。 但同时,你也完美地避开了每一个可能让你进化、提升自己的机会。 知乎博主 @李睿 分享过自己的一段经历。 李睿在一家公司做程序员,至今已有5年。 前不久,公司推出了一个 ...
戴上它,眼睛彻底舒服了!
洞见· 2025-07-01 10:12
Core Viewpoint - The article promotes the WOPOW EM02 eye massager, highlighting its features and benefits for relieving eye fatigue, particularly for individuals who spend long hours in front of screens [21][23][35]. Product Features - The eye massager includes four core functions: intelligent airbag compression, vibration waves, 45°C constant temperature heating, and Bluetooth music [5][51]. - It utilizes upgraded dual-layer airbag technology, combining heating, pressure, music, and vibration for a multi-functional experience [51][55]. - The device is designed with ergonomic principles, ensuring comfort and effective coverage of eye acupoints without pressure on the eyeball [30][74]. Pricing and Promotions - The regular price of the eye massager is 399 yuan, but it is currently offered at a promotional price of 188 yuan, representing a significant discount [12][111]. - The article emphasizes a limited-time offer, indicating that stock is limited and will not be replenished for at least a month after the current batch sells out [12][113]. Target Audience - The product is recommended for various groups, including office workers, students, long-distance drivers, and older adults prone to eye fatigue [43][82]. - The article suggests that the eye massager can be shared among family members, promoting overall eye health and reducing the need for eye drops [43][45]. Brand and Quality Assurance - WOPOW is recognized as a leading brand in the power supply market, known for its high-quality products, including those manufactured for Huawei [13][17]. - The company offers a 15-day free trial period, allowing customers to test the product risk-free [45][113].
成年人最通透的活法:让耳朵学会过滤,让眼睛懂得选择
洞见· 2025-06-30 09:31
有人问王尔德:世界上最恐怖的事情是什么? 王尔德回答道:太多人活得不像自己。思想是别人的意见,生活是别人的模仿,情感是别人的 引述。 活得累的人,往往只听到人群的嘈杂,只看到生活的一角。 学会让耳朵学会过滤,让眼睛懂得选择,自然会过得自在且顺心。 01 洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 人生最重要的课题是知道自己是谁,自己想成为谁。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播云湾朗读音频 我认同一个观点:在人际关系中遭遇各种困惑,甚至抑郁成疾的人,本质上都是过分在意别人 对自己的评价。 让耳朵学会过滤 于谦曾在《十三邀》这档节目里提起过自己的经历。 那时他刚给郭德纲搭档,名气大了之后,非议也随之而来。 作者: 洞见ciyu 他每天都在关注外界的评价,思考自己怎么做才能不被别人说闲话。 但后来某天他忽然想明白一件事:活在世上无非是你说说别人,别人说说你,没什么大不了 的。 自那之后,他关闭了微博,也不理是非。 有演出时他一门心思好好准备,力求做到最好。 闲下来了就爬爬山,逗 ...
DeepSeek建议:布局2025下半年,7个方法重启生活
洞见· 2025-06-30 09:31
Core Viewpoint - The essence of restarting is to seek new possibilities and embrace change in the second half of 2025 [3][105]. Group 1: Time Management - The excessive consumption of short videos leads to wasted time and a sense of emptiness, suggesting the need to reclaim time sovereignty [15][18][21]. - Recommendations include closing personalized video recommendations, utilizing fragmented time for learning, and establishing a focused work environment [22][23][24]. Group 2: Health and Well-being - Emphasizing the importance of health as a prerequisite for a high-quality life, with suggestions for resetting biological clocks, exercising regularly, and optimizing diet [26][32][36][37][38]. Group 3: Financial Management - The need to build a financial fortress in uncertain times, advocating for better spending habits, debt management, and savings [43][44][47]. - Strategies include budgeting across different accounts, reducing unnecessary expenses, and exploring side jobs for additional income [48][49][50]. Group 4: Career Stability - The significance of maintaining stable employment in uncertain times, with a focus on enhancing professional skills and emotional management in the workplace [58][61][62]. - Encouragement to engage in deep work to improve efficiency and personal growth [63]. Group 5: Social Networking - The correlation between personal growth and social circles, suggesting that changing environments can lead to new opportunities [66][70]. - Recommendations include avoiding negative influences, actively seeking new connections, and being open to asking for help [72][73][74]. Group 6: Cognitive Development - The importance of cognitive upgrades for personal breakthroughs, advocating for expanded knowledge and practical application [82][86][88]. - Suggestions include broadening cognitive boundaries, mastering thinking models, and integrating knowledge with action [86][87][88]. Group 7: Environmental Influence - The impact of living environments on personal well-being, highlighting the need for cleanliness and organization to foster positive energy [92][98]. - Recommendations for decluttering, organizing spaces, and creating a pleasant home environment to enhance mood and attract good fortune [102][103][104].
到了一定年纪才明白:上班最大的意义,不是那点工资
洞见· 2025-06-30 09:31
洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下 蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者: 子不语 来源: 读者 (ID: duzheweixin) 生活中最沉重的负担不是工作,而是无聊。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播韩丹朗读音频 俗语说:"地闲生杂草,人闲就烦恼。" 人生在世何以解忧,唯有多忙碌少懒散,有份工作能挣钱。 尽管,上班的日子并非都称心如意,有时也会身心疲惫。 但,许多失业求职的人,又都会无比怀念,收入稳定、规律生活的日子。 工作的烦恼,就像学游泳时不停地呛水,虽然难受,但有随时上岸的权力。 失业的困苦,则是在深海里溺水,恐惧无助,越挣扎越痛苦。 人生就是苦乐参半,不吃工作的苦,就要吃生活的苦。 到了一定年纪,你就会明白,没钱是万万不能的,工作真的能帮助我们解决80%的人生问题。 01 工作,是生活的必修课。 电影《西雅图未眠夜》中有句台词:"努力工作,工作能拯救你,也唯有工作,才能帮你渡过 难关。" 直到丈夫的公司出现了破产危机,背上80多万的债务,沈琳才如梦初醒,看到生活残酷的一 面。 原本 ...
所谓赚钱,就是借力、借智、借势
洞见· 2025-06-30 09:31
洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价 值、有意思的延伸阅读。 作者:洞见Moon 鱼乘于水,草木乘于时。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听 洞见主播云湾朗读音频 看过一张漫画。 再厉害的人,一味埋头蛮干,累死累活也只能换来基本的温饱。 真正会赚钱的人,会把精力用在思考上,寻找一切可利用的资源。 或是在人群中借力,或是向高人借智,甚至向时代借势。 金融学家唐涯在《钱从哪里来》中说: 如果再雇一些壮士随行,这样一趟下来,就赚不了多少钱了。 后来,范蠡打听到一个叫姜子盾的人,在做布匹生意,需要把布从北方运往南方。 借力 这个姜子盾是北方巨商,经营多年,有一条安全的商路。 范蠡就去找姜子盾,表示自己可以免费帮他把布匹运到南方。 《上金谷文集》中记载了一个商圣范蠡卖马的故事。 春秋时期,北方马便宜,南方马贵。 范蠡打算去北方买马,运回吴越来卖。 但是路途遥远,马群目标太大,在路上容易遭遇盗贼。 " 财富只是结果,它的背后其实是一连串关于人和资金的正确决策。 " 懂得以外界之力加持自己,你会以最小的代价,收获丰 ...
真正想赚钱的人,从不抱怨环境
洞见· 2025-06-29 10:52
Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of adaptability and resilience in business, highlighting that successful individuals and companies will find ways to thrive despite challenging environments [2][4][27]. Group 1: Cross-Border Business Adaptation - A shoe business owner from Quanzhou has started exploring cross-border e-commerce, initially targeting Southeast Asia and now Russia, indicating a shift towards international markets due to domestic challenges [2][3]. - Business owners in Yiwu are learning new languages like Arabic and Spanish to communicate better with foreign clients, showcasing their proactive approach to overcoming trade barriers [7][8][13]. Group 2: Strategic Business Shifts - A small appliance businessman from Huizhou, after facing declining profits, identified Vietnam as a new market opportunity and successfully transitioned his business there, earning in one month what he previously made in a year [16][22][23]. - The article discusses how businesses must adapt their strategies in response to market changes, with the metaphor of a sparrow illustrating the need for different survival strategies in varying environments [26]. Group 3: Resilience in Adversity - The narrative includes a story about Charlie Munger's uncle, who, despite losing his architectural career during the Great Depression, adapted by taking on various jobs until he found a new opportunity, emphasizing the value of perseverance [29]. - A cold storage industry professional refrained from engaging in price wars during a market downturn, focusing instead on maintaining existing customer relationships, which illustrates a strategy of minimizing losses rather than maximizing gains [30][31]. Group 4: Market Trends and Innovations - The Guangzhou Metro has innovated by allowing personal advertisements, which has increased passenger engagement and subsequently attracted more corporate advertisers, demonstrating a creative approach to revenue generation in a challenging advertising market [27]. - The article concludes that in times of uncertainty, maintaining a stable mindset and reducing complaints can lead to better outcomes, reinforcing the idea that adaptability is crucial for survival [34][35].
一个家庭兴旺的秘诀,不是卷孩子而是卷爸爸
洞见· 2025-06-29 10:52
Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of fathers' active involvement in family life and child education, arguing that a father's participation leads to better outcomes for children and a healthier family dynamic [6][21][30]. Group 1: Importance of Father's Role - A father's engagement in parenting significantly enhances a child's intelligence and academic performance, as evidenced by studies from Yale University and OECD [21][22]. - The article highlights that children from families where fathers are actively involved are 58% more likely to enter prestigious schools [22]. - The narrative illustrates that a father's presence provides children with a sense of security and positively influences their character development [30]. Group 2: Family Dynamics - The article discusses how a father's support in household responsibilities can alleviate stress for mothers, leading to a more harmonious family environment [17][19]. - It presents a contrasting example of a father who actively participates in household chores and child education, resulting in a nurturing atmosphere [12][16]. - The text argues that a loving relationship between parents is crucial for a child's emotional stability and academic success [36][39]. Group 3: Building Relationships - The article stresses the need for fathers to cultivate strong relationships with both their partners and children to foster a supportive family environment [31][40]. - It mentions that children often have a strong attachment to their fathers, and this bond can be strengthened through shared activities and emotional interactions [42][43]. - The narrative illustrates that improving father-child relationships can lead to significant positive changes in children's behavior and academic performance [44]. Group 4: Role Modeling - The article points out that fathers serve as critical role models for their children, influencing their behavior and attitudes [45][46]. - It emphasizes that children often emulate their fathers, making it essential for fathers to exhibit positive traits and behaviors [48][49]. - The text concludes that a father's exemplary conduct can inspire children to strive for excellence and develop strong character [54][55].
成年人最清醒的社交方式:只表达不驳斥,只沟通不辩解
洞见· 2025-06-29 10:52
洞见 ( DJ00123987 ) —— 不一样的观点,不一样的故事, 3000 万人订阅的微信大号。点击标题下蓝字 " 洞见 " 关注,我们将为您提供有价值、有意思的 延伸阅读。 作者:洞见jinian 所有舒服关系的背后,都是不动声色地接纳。 ♬ 点上方播放按钮可收听洞见主播周周朗读音频 看过一个很有意思的笑话: 倘若你对一个程序员说:你开发的软件出问题了。 他一定会气恼地回复你:一定是你搞错了,软件怎么可能出问题? 但只要你对他说:你开发的软件运行得比预期要慢。 他就会说:难不成是软件出问题了? 仔细琢磨一番便发现,这其实跟程序员无关,而是跟你的沟通方式有关。 我见过最愚蠢的沟通习惯,便是把对方放在了对立面。 01 不知你有没有遇到这种情况: 你说吸烟有害无益,他非要驳斥:有人吸了一辈子烟,还不是活到八九十。 你讲现在的孩子压力大,对方却辩解:孩子压力大,也是一种锻炼。 这类人不讲事实,不谈逻辑,只是为了反驳而反驳。 这只会让局面变得乌烟瘴气,惹得大家都不痛快。 自媒体人 @土哥 有个朋友,特别喜欢反驳别人。 有次,几个人一起聚餐,其中一个人尝了块菠萝,便夸赞这菠萝好甜。 朋友却立刻纠正对方,说这是凤梨 ...